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I think thats exactly what that means
no. it doesn't






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228Tiger
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She just comes to you and says "I just don't love you anymore and I want to leave you"


Would rather this

At least she'd be honest. Can't stand a conniving backstabbing whore






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Darth_Vader
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people who don't have kids are dumb? I'm pretty sure the numbers are saying the EXACT opposite


Like I told the other guy, I feel like someone trying to describe colors to a blind man.






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well, you're kinda spewing your experience and opinions as fact..





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NbamaTiger90
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, wife cheats on you and still loves you,


This but,

Put her arse on the road all the while getting some good break up sex. Then you could just be brutal and PIIHB and spray her face and tell her to GTFO!!






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Pilot Tiger
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Like I told the other guy, I feel like someone trying to describe colors to a blind man


I'm happily married and extremely excited to have kids.

What exactly am I missing here?

Because as far as I can gather, you just appear to be spewing your own opinions about your worldview and calling everyone else who doesn't share your views as "blind"






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well, you're kinda spewing your experience and opinions as fact..


I'm trying to give advice to some of the younger generation and pass on what I have learned in my time here in this world, that's all.

Look, have fun while you're young. I get that. I did it myself. But don't go through life thinking that where you are now and what you have now is all there is to it and you've got it all figured out. If you do that and never marry and have a family of your own, there will come a day when you realize how every wrong you were but it will be too late. I would not want to see that happen to anyone.






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If you do that and never marry and have a family of your own, there will come a day when you realize how every wrong you were but it will be too late
that is YOUR opinion based on YOUR life experiences

not everyone needs marriage or children to find worth in their life







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TH03
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People aren't the same though. Love, marriage, kids, none of that is one size fits all. That's why people with differing beliefs just criticize what is perceived as different and taboo instead if trying to understand how people find their own happiness.





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I'm happily married and extremely excited to have kids. What exactly am I missing here? Because as far as I can gather, you just appear to be spewing your own opinions about your worldview and calling everyone else who doesn't share your views as "blind"


Kinda like me being called "dumb" for having my worldview.

What your missing here is this mistaken concept that someone who loves someone else can cheat on them. That's what started this whole conversation.

As for the blind reference, I used it because trying to explain the nature of true love between a man and woman to someone who does not have that type of love already is like trying to describe colors to a blind person. They simply cannot fathom what you are saying and there really is no good way to say it.






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What your missing here is this mistaken concept that someone who loves someone else can cheat on them. That's what started this whole conversation.


the "mistaken" part of that is just your opinion that you're stating as fact.






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Darth_Vader
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People aren't the same though. Love, marriage, kids, none of that is one size fits all. That's why people with differing beliefs just criticize what is perceived as different and taboo instead if trying to understand how people find their own happiness.


OK. Fine. But from my years of experience and my interactions with people, one common them has always stuck out. No matter how rich you become, no matter what great feats you accomplish, no matter how popular you are or how many places you go, in the end the only thing that matters is your family. And no matter what pleasures or joys you find in this world, none can compare to the joy found in the love of a good wife and your children. Those words of wisdom have been shared with me by many much older people than myself.

Likewise, I've seen many older people who look back on their life and their biggest regrets is either never having a family or leaving or losing their family.

The on thing I've never heard from any of the older people I've encountered is their biggest joy or biggest regret having anything to do with anything other than family. Not work, not travel, not wealth, women, or even friends.




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the "mistaken" part of that is just your opinion that you're stating as fact.


you have stated your opinions as fact as well.






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Kinda like me being called "dumb" for having my worldview.
i don't recall calling you dumb

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What your missing here is this mistaken concept that someone who loves someone else can cheat on them. That's what started this whole conversation.
yea. That's YOUR opinion. In YOUR opinion, when someone fricks up, that means they can't love that person. Because why would they frick up if they loved them, right?

What I'm saying is that not everything in life is black and white like you are saying. You say it's foolish not to have kids. That's quite arrogant and judgmental. You're applying your beliefs onto everyone and when you're met with opposing opinions, you again, take some sort of moral high ground and label these people "blind"

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I used it because trying to explain the nature of true love between a man and woman to someone who does not have that type of love already is like trying to describe colors to a blind person
just because I believe that things in life are complicated and nuanced, doesn't mean I'm blind and it certainly doesn't mean I don't have an unbelievable amount of love for my wife






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cheated on.

anger/fury vs sadness/depression

at least you can try and fix the cheating



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Pilot Tiger
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OK. Fine. But from my years of experience and my interactions with people, one common them has always stuck out. No matter how rich you become, no matter what great feats you accomplish, no matter how popular you are or how many places you go, in the end the only thing that matters is your family.
ok. that's YOUR life, guy.

Some people have shitty families. Some people don't want families. Some people have super close friends they consider to be their family






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Pilot Tiger


and you keep throwing you YOUR opinion as well as though YOUR opinion is anything more than just YOUR opinion.






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TH03
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you have stated your opinions as fact as well.


when? do you mean when I was posting the fact that there is a lack of evidence of a biological or instinctual function to explain the feelings of love?






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Pilot Tiger
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and you keep throwing you YOUR opinion as well as though YOUR opinion is anything more than just YOUR opinion.








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Darth_Vader
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ok. that's YOUR life, guy. Some people have shitty families. Some people don't want families. Some people have super close friends they consider to be their family


And my life has taken me from Alabama to Alaska, Germany, the Middle East, and as far south as Panama. I've met people with great families, shitty families, and even people like me with no family whatsoever. I've met people with super close friends, small groups of friends, and crowds they thought were friends.

You keep attacking my points here and are quite defensive, almost too defensive if I do say so. But you're missing the point. My opinion is not based on some random shite I've just pulled out of my ass. Like I said, it's from a life of experiencing and a whole lot of listening to a hell of a lot of people who've seen enough of this world to have shite figured out far better than myself. They shared their wisdom with me and I'm grateful I was smart enough to heed their words. My only purpose in all this is to pass on what they showed me.






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