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Woman regrets making purity pledge. Bonus: WYHI?
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:52 pm
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:52 pm
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The whole coercing kids into promising not to have sex until marriage is very creepy IMO. Adults are forcing the decision on the kids by using peer pressure...a decision that no kid has the mental capability of understanding the gravity.
But I digress
WYHI?
quote:
At the age of 10, I took a pledge to remain a virgin until marriage....
...The church taught me that sex was for married people. Extramarital sex was sinful and dirty and I would go to Hell if I did it. I learned that as a girl, I had a responsibility to my future husband to remain pure for him....
For more than a decade, I wore my virginity like a badge of honor. My church encouraged me to do so, saying my testimony would inspire other young girls to follow suit....
...We were together for six years before we got married. Any time we did anything remotely sexual, guilt overwhelmed me. I wondered where the line was because I was terrified to cross it. Was he allowed to touch my breasts? Could we look at each other naked? I didn't know what was considered sexual enough to condemn my future marriage and send me straight to Hell.
Sex hurt. I knew it would. Everyone told me it would be uncomfortable the first time. What they didn't tell me is that I would be back in the bathroom afterward, crying quietly for reasons I didn't yet comprehend. They didn't tell me that I'd be on my honeymoon, crying again, because sex felt dirty and wrong and sinful even though I was married and it was supposed to be okay now....
When we got home, I couldn't look anyone in the eye. Everyone knew my virginity was gone. My parents, my church, my friends, my co-workers. They all knew I was soiled and tarnished. I wasn't special anymore. My virginity had become such an essential part of my personality that I didn't know who I was without it.
It didn't get better. I avoided undressing in front of my husband. I tried not to kiss him too often or too amorously so I wouldn't lead him on. I dreaded bedtime. Maybe he'd want to have sex.
The whole coercing kids into promising not to have sex until marriage is very creepy IMO. Adults are forcing the decision on the kids by using peer pressure...a decision that no kid has the mental capability of understanding the gravity.
But I digress
WYHI?
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Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:53 pm to colorchangintiger
Nope
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:54 pm to colorchangintiger
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:54 pm to colorchangintiger
That is not a woman dude.
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:55 pm to colorchangintiger
seriously that's one ugly dude.
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:55 pm to colorchangintiger
Every single detail about here is unattractive.
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:55 pm to colorchangintiger
not a chancePosted on 8/6/14 at 12:56 pm to The Dudes Rug
That's a guy.
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:56 pm to colorchangintiger
IWNHWATFP
WATFP=(with a ten foot pole)
WATFP=(with a ten foot pole)
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:56 pm to colorchangintiger
probably didn't have many temptations to break the pledge
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:56 pm to colorchangintiger
whacked out churches screw up these girls so bad..
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:57 pm to colorchangintiger
are we sure it's voluntary or do people actually want to frick her?
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:57 pm to The Mick
Warm the cantelope and drill a hole. Dads gonna be lonely tonight. WNHI
This post was edited on 8/6/14 at 12:59 pm
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:57 pm to Drew Orleans
She sounds like a whore
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:58 pm to colorchangintiger
What kind of church tells children they are going to Hell if they have extramarital sex??
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:58 pm to colorchangintiger
I would definitely hit it just so i could steal that shirt
also who can honestly say they haven't done worse? I can't on this one.
also who can honestly say they haven't done worse? I can't on this one.
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:58 pm to lsunurse
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What kind of church tells children they are going to Hell if they have extramarital sex??
Baptist
Source: Made purity pledge
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:58 pm to lsunurse
Not legit
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:58 pm to Drew Orleans
quote:
Based on the pic the husband was crying too.
Posted on 8/6/14 at 12:58 pm to lsunurse
quote:
What kind of church tells children they are going to Hell if they have extramarital sex??
Most of them?
I honestly don't know, but I thought that was a pretty common religious theme.
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