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Why do people hate their in-laws

Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:25 am
Posted by madmen22
new orleans, la
Member since May 2014
28 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:25 am
Just wondering. They invited you in as family
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14782 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:27 am to
quote:

invited you in as family


That's a reach!

'they put up with you as part of their family.'
Posted by Potchafa
Avoyelles
Member since Jul 2016
3142 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:31 am to
Not sure. Mine are some of the greatest people I know. Sometimes I put them above my own blood.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62697 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:32 am to
They hated you first.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11196 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:32 am to
I had amazing in-laws. I miss them so much.

Not everyone is that lucky.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18664 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:33 am to
I get along really well with mine.

My wife has never really gotten along with my parents. It's mostly because my mom is a little strange and overbearing at times.
Posted by TigerBait1971
PTC GA
Member since Oct 2014
14865 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:34 am to
My FIL comes to my home and fricks with my thermostat...

You don't frick with a man's thermostat...
Posted by Recovered
Member since May 2016
577 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:35 am to
I had a great relationship with mine while I was drunk, they were codependent on my addiction. Used it to keep power over my family. Now that I'm sober not so much, taking control of my life doesn't fit their agenda.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
72580 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:35 am to
Has your ex. ever gotten the help he needed? Did his family push him to get help?

My MiL is fine. SistersiL are fine. None of them are nearly as smart-assed as my family. (Shocker, I know)
Posted by poochie
Houma, la
Member since Apr 2007
6168 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:36 am to
I love mine and they love me.

But keep in mind they know what you're doing to their daughter in the bedroom. And on the couch. And in the laundry room. And on the patio.

Nevermind, they're inlaws now so you're already married and none of the above applies anymore.
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20435 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:42 am to
I actually get along better with my in-laws than with my own parents. A big part of it was that my parents got really selfish and over protective of me when I proposed to my wife, even though I begged them to stay out of it. I told them they were making a huge mistake and that it would leave a lifetime of estranged relations with my wife (at best). They didn't listen and gave me attitude ("how dare you tell your parents what to do, you don't know as much about life as we do", etc.) Guess what happened. Exactly what I said was going to happen. Me and the wife called off our wedding and eloped. Her dad showed up for the private ceremony and that was that.

Big lesson to learn here for parents: stay the frick out of your kids' wedding plans and be very careful what you say to your potential son/daughter in-law. I vowed that I will never pass that same down to my son or daughter.

It's sad that the latter half of my life with my parents is now estranged, but what the hell. My wife and my kids are my life now. Just as it was for them. But somewhere along the way, they forgot that. You insult my wife or my kids, you are insulting an extension of me as well.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11196 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:45 am to
quote:

Has your ex. ever gotten the help he needed? Did his family push him to get help?


I don't know. From what I occasionally hear, he seems to be doing a lot better. I hope he is.
Posted by Isabelle81
NEW ORLEANS, LA
Member since Sep 2015
2718 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:47 am to
Mother-in-law from my first marriage was a psychopath and i didn't know it until a few months after she was caring for my two toddlers. When I found out what she did to one of my children I came close to killing her. My children and I were never in her presence again. I hope she is burning in hell for eternity!!!
This post was edited on 2/25/17 at 7:48 am
Posted by Kraut Dawg
Member since Sep 2012
4501 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:49 am to
This post was edited on 11/8/20 at 2:16 pm
Posted by Jobu93
Cypress TX
Member since Sep 2011
19185 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:49 am to
My in laws are awesome. I figure since I married a product of their parenting that they would be pretty darned good.

We hang out and vacation/dive with them.

Very happy with the situation
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
16446 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:51 am to
quote:

Mother-in-law from my first marriage was a psychopath and i didn't know it until a few months after she was caring for my two toddlers. When I found out what she did to one of my children I came close to killing her. My children and I were never in her presence again. I hope she is burning in hell for eternity!!!


Well that escalated quickly.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16163 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:54 am to
i don't hate mine. But, damn, they're agrivating as hell most of the time.
This post was edited on 2/25/17 at 8:01 am
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:55 am to
quote:

actually get along better with my in-laws than with my own parents. A big part of it was that my parents got really selfish and over protective of me when I proposed to my wife, even though I begged them to stay out of it. I told them they were making a huge mistake and that it would leave a lifetime of estranged relations with my wife (at best). They didn't listen and gave me attitude ("how dare you tell your parents what to do, you don't know as much about life as we do", etc.) Guess what happened. Exactly what I said was going to happen. Me and the wife called off our wedding and eloped. Her dad showed up for the private ceremony and that was that. 

Big lesson to learn here for parents: stay the frick out of your kids' wedding plans and be very careful what you say to your potential son/daughter in-law. I vowed that I will never pass that same down to my son or daughter. 

It's sad that the latter half of my life with my parents is now estranged, but what the hell. My wife and my kids are my life now. Just as it was for them. But somewhere along the way, they forgot that. You insult my wife or my kids, you are insulting an extension of me as well.


Same shite happened to my wife and I
This post was edited on 2/25/17 at 7:55 am
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29430 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:55 am to
Nice generalization
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 2/25/17 at 7:55 am to
My in laws are nice. No hate.

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