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Who is this depressed lonely famous actress on Reddit?
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:35 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:35 pm
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I feel so whiny and ungrateful even writing this: I am a famous person. I sing and act for a living, make a huge amount of money and I'm in magazines and on TV every few days. It all began when I was 19 so it's not something I've been doing my whole life and I'm still not used to it. I honestly don't think I ever will be.
I grew up in a poor country. The only reason I didn't grow up very poor were my mom's awesome money skills. I'm an only child, so it was just mom, dad and I. They both worked shitty low paying jobs and if something unexpected came up that we'd need money for, they'd take additional jobs and work their butts off. At one point my mom had three jobs and dad had two. When my mom was 40 she even went to school again so she wouldn't have to struggle forever. She graduated while working two jobs. I am beyond grateful for everything they did and love them more than anything.
I got into this thing kind of overnight. It's something I dreamed of doing when I was a kid, but never really had faith anything would come out of it. When I got paid for the first time I calculated how much my parents would have to work for that kind of money and then sobbed like a lil bitch for 5 hours because I felt so guilty. I promised myself I'd do anything to make their lives easier. I bought them a house and 2 cars and send them on fancy vacations every once in a while. I tried to talk them into quitting their jobs so I can provide for them full time like they did for me for so many years, but they said no way. They were so humble about it I was ashamed for even suggesting it.
The problem: my job makes it impossible to maintain friendships, relationships or see my family more than 3-4 times a year. The guys either wanna date me because of the money/fame, or the pressure of being constantly followed by the paps/written about on the internet becomes too much and they bail.
My two absolute best friends live in another country so I don't see them that much either. I flew them over two times while on tour so we could just hang, but they got freaked out by the paparazzi waiting in front of the hotel. Usually my only two choices are either to go out to do fun things while trying to hide, or just stay in the hotel. Hiding usually works for a while and even if someone recognizes me I don't really mind, I'll sign a few autographs, take photos with kids, thank them and that's it. It's the paparazzi that I hate with the fire of a thousand suns. They're rude, inconsiderate and pushy, and they scare away everyone I love. Example: I was in mcdonald's with my male best friend, I was dressed very casual with no makeup and I thought no one recognized me; a few hours later our picture is on the internet saying I got a new boyfriend; of course his boyfriend got pissed. When I went to dinner with my female best friend, they wrote something like "lonelydorknerd has a fat best friend" like she's my charity case, and used an unflattering picture of her from the restaurant. I feel so bad, that shite hurts, and especially if you're not used to it (and very few people are). They're both very normal people with normal jobs. He's in academia (a psychiatrist) so he's kinda used to the attention, even though it's the different kind, but he knows how to handle it. She is a full time nanny tho, a small town girl next door, and as much as she was fascinated by the whole thing at first, she got sick of it quite fast and I'm scared she might get sick of me too. She is already avoiding to meet in public and nowadays I only ever see her on skype or at my house when I'm not on tour or filming (which is rarely).
I dated my ex for 4 years (we were in college together). We broke up for reasons (at the time) unknown when I started getting more famous. He just stopped talking to me and went completely no contact. I was crushed for 2 years after that because he never let me know what the hell happened. He did contact me eventually. He said he was really sorry, how he had been jealous of my success and felt inadequate, everything felt too much and he didn't know how to handle it. He said he knew I'd never make him feel inadequate on purpose and I was the perfect girlfriend and didn't deserve to be treated the way he treated me. In the meantime he got a good paying job and got his shite together, said I was the love of his life and we dated for a while again. After a few more months he proposed, I said no because I couldn't get over him disappearing on me, even though he said he'd never do it again. I miss him and regret saying no, although I'm not sure if it's just my general loneliness speaking or we really were "meant to be". I don't think I'll ever find out because after I rejected him he went no contact again, and he'll just text me for birthdays etc.
I also dated a few other guys in the meantime, both famous and non-famous, but it just didn't work out, for reasons I already mentioned.
Apart from the paparazzi/tabloids/fricking perez problem, there's also the obvious I-don't-have-time-for-anything problem. If I'm not touring or filming, I'm recording, doing interviews or events. I honestly don't have time to poop. I see my therapist once a week and go to the gym twice a week and those are the only 2 things I do that are not work related. Days off usually make me even more depressed because they're usually in the middle of the week so there's no time to fly out to see my family or friends or fly them over, and I just stay home alone, throw myself a pity party and contemplate how fricking lonely I am. Easter is coming up and there will be a huge family gathering at my parents' and it makes me so depressed to think it will be another one I'll miss. At this point I just wanna be like frick everything and just go home and hug my mom. I can't though, because I am filming on location in fricking Croatia and can't just bail.
I have no idea how my colleagues from the industry do it. How they date, see their families or start their own families. My manager says it's normal and I should just suck it up because "this level of fame won't last forever" and I should make the best of it. I don't know if I can, tho.
I don't know what my question is. I just needed to talk to someone I don't pay to listen to me, and my friends are probably sick of hearing me whining over skype. What should I do? How do I stop feeling this way? Do I just drop everything and become an accountant or whatever?
tl;dr: I am very famous as dumb as that sounds and I miss my family, friends, and having a normal life. i don't think I can do this anymore.
Post has since been deleted on Reddit but here's the link to the original thread.
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Clues
26 years old
Only child
Female
Actress and Singer
Grew up in a foreign 3rd World Country
Went to college
Was once photographed at McDonald's with a male companion wearing no makeup
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 9:43 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:37 pm to Bench McElroy
Just needs a good dicking
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:41 pm to Bench McElroy
I bet she isnt that famous and this is a publicity stunt
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 8:46 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:45 pm to Bench McElroy
quote:
Clues
26 years old
Female
Actress and Singer
Grew up in a foreign 3rd World Country
Went to college
Was once photographed at McDonald's with a male companion wearing no makeup
Add:
Currently filming in Croatia
Possibly photographed with overweight friend
ETA:
I'd start with the cast of Glee.
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 8:46 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:46 pm to yurintroubl
Post this on the Movie/TV Board... There are some pretty savvy cast detectives there.
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:46 pm to Bench McElroy
There is movie being filmed in Croatia right now called "Fan".
The only girl I could find on IMDB was some no named girl who is 28.
The only girl I could find on IMDB was some no named girl who is 28.
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:48 pm to Bench McElroy
Angelique Boyer
Sarah Geronimo
Sarah Geronimo
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:48 pm to TheBob
Game of Thrones also shoots in Croatia.
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:52 pm to proudertider
Memphis. Def a third world country.
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:56 pm to mattz1122
quote:
Angelique Boyer
Sarah Geronimo
Geromino has three siblings so she's not it. I don't know enough about Boyer. Will have to investigate her background further to see if she's a possibility.
Edit: There's an article from two months ago which states that Boyer is engaged and expecting a child. She doesn't seem to fit the clues either.
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 9:04 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 8:57 pm to Bench McElroy
I'd bet the whole thing is a troll job.
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:00 pm to Bench McElroy
quote:
I don't know enough about Boyer. Will have to investigate her background further to see if she's a possibility.
Wiki said she was in a relationship for 4 years and they broke up last year.
Hispanic Papparazzi is notoriously overzealous.
ETA:
She attended college in Mexico City. ETA: Apparently this "college" was a trade school for acting... and she was there in her pre-teen years.
Whoever said Boyer - I think you nailed it.
...except her mom died last year.
This is a good one.
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 9:06 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:05 pm to yurintroubl
Thanks. You can identify me.
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:21 pm to yurintroubl
quote:
Whoever said Boyer - I think you nailed it
She said she wanted to go home for Easter and hug her mom. Boyer's mom died last year.
ETA-Dammit. Missed your edit
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 9:24 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:23 pm to Hangit
Doesn't mean that she can't still have the want to go hug her mom.
Eta googled her. she fine.
Eta googled her. she fine.
This post was edited on 3/28/15 at 9:25 pm
Posted on 3/28/15 at 9:24 pm to Hangit
And Boyer was born in France, not exactly third-world.
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