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Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:33 pm to AubieALUMdvm
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OK why not? Would want to leave your options open?
what benefits do I get from being married? I don't see any.
that is why. Its just a cost without tangible benefits. The wife feels the same way. We would still be in a committed relationship, and I wouldn't be in to keeping my options open. We just wouldn't have had a wedding ceremony which really was her mother's gig anyway.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:35 pm to Hawkeye95
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what benefits do I get from being married? I don't see any.
lots of financial benefits to being married.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:36 pm to Paige
When you find out that she did meth with her pregnant sister.....time to walk away.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:37 pm to Peekaboo
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lots of financial benefits to being married
Such as?
This post was edited on 10/13/15 at 12:37 pm
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:46 pm to Peekaboo
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lots of financial benefits to being married.
For women, yes.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:47 pm to Peekaboo
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lots of financial benefits to being married.
what?
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:48 pm to Hawkeye95
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what benefits do I get from being married? I don't see any.
If you have kids, it's cheaper than child support.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:48 pm to SabiDojo
When a smoking hot lawyer starts working in the office next to you.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:49 pm to Paige
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When is enough, enough?
when you aren't happy...life is too short to stay with someone that sucks...cut your losses.
Are you trying to get a married man Paige?
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:50 pm to Paige
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The (traditional) vows do say in sickness, blah blah blah
And here's your problem with marriage folks...nobody takes that shite seriously anymore.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 12:51 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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When a smoking hot lawyer starts working in the office next to you.
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Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:15 pm to LucasP
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me-first culture .... Just because your partner doesn't "pay enough attention to you" doesn't mean you can just end things. It's selfish and shortsighted.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:24 pm to LSUZombie
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It's completely absurd that you think you have the authority to speak for what God would want.
“Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” Mark 10:11-12
That's straight out of Jesus' mouth. I don't think it. It's what He said. This world has become blinded, but God doesn't change His mind.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:42 pm to Paige
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The (traditional) vows do say in sickness, blah blah blah
Good question. If the spouse is, Hypo: let's say, alcoholic and mentally and verbally abuses. Aren't they sick and need help, therefore breaking the vow?
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:46 pm to cajunangelle
You're not allowed here. They're missing you on the Poli and over 50. 
Posted on 10/13/15 at 2:13 pm to RogerTheShrubber
you're not legally required to get married. It's totally up to you and your spouse.
If you treat every relationship you are in past a certain age (anywhere post college really) like an engagement then you won't get tricked into marrying the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
I never had many gfs during the time period after college and prior to marriage. I just didn't see the point. If there was a girl that I wanted to have sex with but not marry... I would just do that...but not make her my gf...why?
The moment you know you will never marry your gf or your gf has qualities that you would never want in a wife, cut bait and break up with her. You're just wasting each other's times and building her hopes up. You could keep her around for the sex but after years of being faithful to the gf you have no long term future with...you'll realize you wasted a lot of your prime years.
But if marriage is not something you want to do in your lifetime, go ahead, be that guy that ALWAYS has a gf.
If you treat every relationship you are in past a certain age (anywhere post college really) like an engagement then you won't get tricked into marrying the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
I never had many gfs during the time period after college and prior to marriage. I just didn't see the point. If there was a girl that I wanted to have sex with but not marry... I would just do that...but not make her my gf...why?
The moment you know you will never marry your gf or your gf has qualities that you would never want in a wife, cut bait and break up with her. You're just wasting each other's times and building her hopes up. You could keep her around for the sex but after years of being faithful to the gf you have no long term future with...you'll realize you wasted a lot of your prime years.
But if marriage is not something you want to do in your lifetime, go ahead, be that guy that ALWAYS has a gf.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 2:17 pm to Shexter
Don't quote me without full context bro.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 2:18 pm to LucasP
I always love when people take your posts seriously Lucas 
Posted on 10/13/15 at 2:21 pm to Paige
When they spend more time talking on a message board than in the marriage?
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