What would you do? (Twisted infidelity)

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I caught my husband cheating with our son's fiancée a few days ago. It hurts to even write it. It still doesn't feel real to me, I don't understand how they could do this knowing the devastation it would cause to the entire family. Thankfully my son dumped this girl right away, he refuses to come back to the house, and says he will never speak to his father again. We've been married for 27 years, I thought we were solid. I had no idea anything was going on, neither did my son. There was never anything noticeable between my husband and this girl when we were all together. My husband's behavior never changed, he was never missing when he should've been home. The reason I never noticed anything was because they were meeting in our house during the day when no one was supposed to be home. He has no answer for why he did this, hurt his wife and son. He just can't explain himself. He claims it was just a sexual affair, they have no desire to be together. Is this a mid-life crisis? He's 48, she's 25. I told her parents, they're disgusted as they should be. I've told all my family and in-laws. Everyone is telling me to divorce him except his mother. She wants me to find some way to forgive him. I know the right thing is to divorce him, but it still hurts to give up our history...it all feels like a lie now.

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