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Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:36 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:36 am
This is gonna suck. I'm dreading it, but it has to be done.
We've been together 4 years. I'm not getting married, but she wants to.
It would be selfish of me to keep stringing her along knowing that I will never marry her. I don't want to waste anymore of her time.
Also, I'm miserable. She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal, but I dread coming home at night. I love being home alone, but when she's there I just need to get the frick out.
My family loves her, and they're gonna be pissed, but it needs to be done. I can't live miserably anymore. I can't waste my life being unhappy just for the sake of not wanting to hurt her.
And boy is it gonna hurt. She's going to be devastated. This will be one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, because I do care for her.
Yes posting this on the OT is my way of getting it out. I know I'll get blasted, but I needed to put it in writing.
Fire away.
We've been together 4 years. I'm not getting married, but she wants to.
It would be selfish of me to keep stringing her along knowing that I will never marry her. I don't want to waste anymore of her time.
Also, I'm miserable. She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal, but I dread coming home at night. I love being home alone, but when she's there I just need to get the frick out.
My family loves her, and they're gonna be pissed, but it needs to be done. I can't live miserably anymore. I can't waste my life being unhappy just for the sake of not wanting to hurt her.
And boy is it gonna hurt. She's going to be devastated. This will be one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, because I do care for her.
Yes posting this on the OT is my way of getting it out. I know I'll get blasted, but I needed to put it in writing.
Fire away.
This post was edited on 12/2/16 at 12:01 pm
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:38 am to rintintin
I'm going to need some nudes in order to properly advise.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:38 am to rintintin
Pics of gf?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:38 am to rintintin
Sounds like you're going to regret it either way. Enjoy the depression.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:38 am to rintintin
Have you gone through what's wrong?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:38 am to rintintin
PIIHB first
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:38 am to rintintin
Sounds like you're already married.
Good Luck, brother.
Good Luck, brother.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
good luck baw if we dont hear from you by tomorrow we will send a search party
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
Congrats on the breakup sex
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
Take a few days to really think about it. Especially if she is such a keeper.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
These are my confessions.....
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
What area are you located? I want to make sure and check the news tomorrow so I can find out the details of the girlfriend going psycho and cutting your balls off. 
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 4:36 pm
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
quote:
She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal,
sounds like a great thing!
quote:
but I dread coming home at night. I'm miserable
Why? WTF? You just described a damn near perfect girl.
Lemme guess...you think the grass is greener in the other pasture, right? You wanna frick other women?
I hope you realize that fricking strangers, while fun at first, will get old fast and you'll sit around longing for the companionship you once had with this girl.
If she's as pretty and great as you make her out to be, you'll be crawling back to her in 6 months.
Think your depression is bad now, just wait when you're begging her to take you back and she refuses because she's moved on to more mature men.
God help you.
ETA: This thread will have 100 posts by 10:00 AM.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 7:42 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
Good luck. Probably should have done it sooner, but oh well. I'll drink one for you later.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:39 am to rintintin
PIIHBOLTBBU (one last time before breaking up)
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 7:41 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:40 am to rintintin
Congrats on being a miserable POS?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:40 am to rintintin
Well let's see how beautiful she is numbnuts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:40 am to rintintin
quote:
Also, I'm miserable. She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal
=/=
Do you just want to be a loaner?
One thing, don't do it, until you have a break up plan. If you live together, who goes where, who pays what bills moving forward...etc. have everything laid out to make this process streamlined.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:40 am to poops_at_parties
LOL it took you 4 frickin years to figure that out? You must be like 22-23 easily.
Be prepared to have folks choose sides because with that amount of time people WILL.
If shes a solid OT 7-8 you and your dick will never forgive yourself.
Good luck MATE!
Be prepared to have folks choose sides because with that amount of time people WILL.
If shes a solid OT 7-8 you and your dick will never forgive yourself.
Good luck MATE!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 7:40 am to Bob Sacamano
quote:
Take a few days to really think about it.
I've really thought about it for months. I'm 100% certain it's the right move for both of us.
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