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Sometimes you don't have a choice

Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:21 pm
Posted by wal marks
bee arrah
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:21 pm
I grew up with a friend of mine who's dad would sell their food stamps for crack. Poor bastard had to hustle just to eat. Never had a chance. He would ask his dad for food and his dad would beat his arse. Looking back on this now I truly wonder how many of those "thugs" (which he was to this day) had to endure this kind of treatment.
This post was edited on 9/22/16 at 9:30 pm
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:22 pm to
A choice for what? Your rambling did not clarify
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
33856 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:24 pm to
A lot.
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
35348 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:24 pm to
Oooooookkkkkkk...
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25412 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:25 pm to
Ok.... Cool.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
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Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:25 pm to
Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
19006 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:25 pm to
It is an unbreakable cycle
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:25 pm to
You're a product of your environment. Some break the cycle and some continue the shite show.
Posted by wal marks
bee arrah
Member since Mar 2013
1115 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:26 pm to
Sorry. A choice not to start off in a life of crime and theft. Kinda hard to learn new ways after that's all you know. But as an adult you can choose and change.


Just frustrated. Just found out he is no longer with us.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:26 pm to
The vast majority. Upbringing plays a huge role in the person you grow up to be.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
33856 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:30 pm to
That sucks
Posted by Steadyhands
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Member since May 2016
6766 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:31 pm to
quote:

Just frustrated. Just found out he is no longer with us.



Well sorry to hear you lost someone you do seem to care about. His dad was a pos and hopefully he gets what he deserves if he hasn't already.

All I can say is change starts with you. He had a shite start on life...and he chose to continue in that path. Not saying it's an easy thing to change and overcome, but you either follow suit or you break the fricking chain that binds you.
Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
19006 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:32 pm to
I met a kid two years ago, he was in the 5th grade. Came from a horrible home. Mom made him take care of himself. He would come to our gym to play ball and had a ton of talent. If he worked he could have been really good. A buddy put him on his traveling team and set rules for him. He couldn't do it. Had no drive to go to school or make something of himself. Ended up getting kicked off the team. Saw him in Instagram today flying his colors and throwing signs. It always depresses me when you work with kids who could be great but have very little support at home to help them achieve.
This post was edited on 9/22/16 at 9:33 pm
Posted by lnomm34
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
12604 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:33 pm to
Yep. That's exactly what depresses me.

Constant (and growing) cycle of don't-give-a-shite-about-being-a-productive-member-of-society.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:35 pm to
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which he was to this day


Sorry for your friend's loss.
Posted by TigerTalker16
Columbia,MO
Member since Apr 2015
11533 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:39 pm to
It sucks. Kids who go through shite like this grow up to be a piece of shite just like their motherfrickin' father and then the cycle continues.
Posted by wal marks
bee arrah
Member since Mar 2013
1115 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:40 pm to
We beat his dad's arse down twice. Tried to help him. He was begging the cops to be removed from the situation but they wouldn't or couldn't do shite. Poor bastard never had a chance. I come from a good family and was always fed. We stole money just to feed him. Not proud of that but he was my brother in friendship.
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
6766 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:41 pm to
Some frick is in here deliberately down voting every post, good posts...frick you whoever you are.
Posted by TigerTalker16
Columbia,MO
Member since Apr 2015
11533 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:41 pm to
We have a serial downvoter ITT. Way to go, OP. You triggered some poor SOB.
Posted by Spock's Eyebrow
Member since May 2012
12300 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:47 pm to
quote:

Looking back on this now I truly wonder how many of those "thugs" (which he was to this day) had to endure this kind of treatment.


Probably a majority in one way or another. The only solution is to curb the breeding, but it's hard to imagine that ever happening. I have zero faith that some great person will someday lead them out of the wilderness in numbers great enough to make a difference.
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