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Separation/ Divorce Dating

Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:51 pm
Posted by 1964
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:51 pm
What kind of person with kids starts dating right after a separation? What does that say about a person and their future relationships and marriage?
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62850 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:52 pm to
Your future ex wife that's who.
Posted by Rekrul
Member since Feb 2007
7941 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:53 pm to
She's moved on, I suggest you do the same
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
18881 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:54 pm to
From personal experience, it ends poorly.
Posted by sleepytime
Member since Feb 2014
3568 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:54 pm to
The kind that were "dating" before separating. It's not that uncommon and it sounds like you are having trouble letting go.
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:55 pm to
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Your future ex wife that's who.


BOOM!

I've been there. The answer is- the one you're glad is gone.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 8:57 pm
Posted by Tactical1
Denham Springs
Member since May 2010
27104 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 8:58 pm to
Trashy
Posted by LSU Delts
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
2548 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:01 pm to
One that you need to divorce and don't look back.
Posted by tigerpawl
Can't get there from here.
Member since Dec 2003
22233 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:02 pm to
quote:

What kind of person with kids starts dating right after a separation? What does that say about a person and their future relationships and marriage?

Desperation and insecurity. "Someone to take care of me".
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47462 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:03 pm to
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From personal experience, it ends poorly.

Well. My gf and I did this.
This post was edited on 5/31/15 at 5:54 pm
Posted by SammyTiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2009
66342 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:04 pm to
divorce filed of finalized?

I know Louisiana requires a year of living separate and apart to get a divorce finalized if you have kids (exceptions for adultery and other reasons)

Also people don't get divorced after being unhappy with their partner usually for a decent amount of time. So they may be rearing to go when they are free.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175682 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:05 pm to
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What kind of person with kids starts dating right after a separation?
the kind looking to frick
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
84986 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:05 pm to
Why don't you marry her big Mike?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47462 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:06 pm to
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Why don't you marry her big Mike?


Shhh. Just kidding. No secret. I plan to, Goober. It's a regular topic of discussion.
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:07 pm to
Yep, it sucks for the kids but you don't want to spend your life with someone thats that clueless. Lawyer up and regulate when your kids have to be instantly subjected to that. That can be devastating to children and the law can be on your side. Good luck.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5152 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:08 pm to
What would be an appropriate time to wait? I started dating about a month after she moved out. What in the hell is there to wait for? I never brought anyone around my kids - hell, I never brought anyone to my house. Strictly hotels only.
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
30162 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:08 pm to
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What kind of person with kids starts dating right after a separation? What does that say about a person and their future relationships and marriage?


The kind that's apparently been checked out of the former relationship for quite some time.



Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:14 pm to
I would date a divorcee until the divorce is finalized and she is a good five years out of the divorce. Too many emotional issues for the ladies (generally anger). You do anything too soon, there will be a honeymoon period with the infatuation with the fricking, but once that dies down, reality sets in and it usually is not very pretty. Everyone needs time to get past their divorce(s).

Actually encountered two girls who had each been married five times each. Neither one would accept even a small fraction of the responsibility for their role in the divorce (and yes, both sides have responsibility whether they want to admit it or not). Needless to say, I begged out damned quickly on both of them. Actually had a trophy at one point who was still pissed at daddy and both ex-husbands for leaving her (first one disappeared in a manner that he was never found). I understand that she couldn't help her father leaving. However, when you have two husbands shag arse, you do need to look in the mirror a little. Like I said, she was fricking beautiful, but also fricking crazy.
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
84986 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:16 pm to
Any chance I get an invite to the ceremony?
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102970 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 9:21 pm to
The worst person is the one who immediately get serious with someone who just got separated. They are desperate trash being used and they think they are in love lulz.
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