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Question for the Married OT fellows
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:07 am
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:07 am
Been married for a while now. I love my wife but here's my dilemma? I just got a nice raise at work. Do i tell her right away or wait a few months? The reason i say a few months is the minute i let the cat out of the bag then she be wanting stuff that we/I don't really need .
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:08 am to FLObserver
I told my wife that my job doesn't give raises.
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:08 am to FLObserver
So are you bragging about your raise or complaining about yo bitch?
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:09 am to FLObserver
Just put the increased portion of earnings directly in savings. You can mention it to her, but your checking account won't look any different.
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:09 am to FLObserver
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I just got a nice raise at work. Do i tell her right away or wait a few months?
Do you not share a joint checking account? Does she not participate in financial discussions?
In marriage, you should come together as one or you may face the possibility of being just one.
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:10 am to FLObserver
Do you know the consequence of her finding out you got a raise and you didn't tell her? I shiver just thinking about it.
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:10 am to FLObserver
How do you get paid? Do you get a direct deposit into a joint account or old school check?
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:10 am to FLObserver
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wanting stuff that we/I don't really need
Like what? A boob job so she can leave you? Or a new vehicle so she has transportation to cheat on you?
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:11 am to FLObserver
Are you bragging about length of marriage, being in love, getting a raise, or owning cats and bags?
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:11 am to FLObserver
does she not have access to the bank acct? she will figure out pretty quickly
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:12 am to FLObserver
Pics of wife are needed to determine if she deserves being honest to.
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:12 am to FLObserver
Congrats on the sex you won't be having when she finds out you lied?
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:13 am to FLObserver
If you are trying to keep money a secret from your wife, that's the least of your problems.
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:14 am to FLObserver
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I love my wife but here's my dilemma
Quickly skimming through this, I initially read this as "I love my wife but here is my diarrhea"
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:14 am to Will Cover
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Do you not share a joint checking account?
No we have seperate accounts. She will not know until taxes next year. I will tell her by then.
This post was edited on 6/17/16 at 9:16 am
Posted on 6/17/16 at 9:15 am to FLObserver
You should always keep big financial decisions/news a secret from your spouse.
It always works out well.
It always works out well.
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