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Offered a job but don't want to burn bridges with current boss

Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:00 pm
Posted by SUB
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Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:00 pm
I was offered a good job by another company. I'm currently not super happy with my current job, but wouldn't say I'm unhappy either. This new job seems to be a better fit for me and my family, and has better pay (8%) and better benefits.

My dilemma is that there are 3 people on my team right now that support my boss. 1 person is on maternity leave, and the other person is transferring to a site across the globe, but will still be working on the same stuff. However she won't be as accessible. We have annual planning coming up in October, and it is a huge process that I am a part of. My boss and I have a good relationship, but I feel like he may hate me if I leave before annual planning?

Any advice would be appreciated.
Posted by horsesandbulls
Destin, FL
Member since Jun 2008
4865 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:01 pm to
You gotta do what's right for you and yours. If your boss doesn't understand that he's not worth working for.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136793 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:01 pm to
quote:

but I feel like he may hate me if I leave before annual planning?
quote:

Any advice would be appreciated.


it is business. if you like the place so much, give them an opportunity to match or exceed

any boss should understand and appreciate you being up front with them
Posted by Tactical1
Denham Springs
Member since May 2010
27104 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:01 pm to
Stop being Beta and go get what is yours.
Posted by arseinclarse
Algiers Purnt
Member since Apr 2007
34405 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:02 pm to
quote:

a better fit for me and my family


What's the problem? Be a man and discuss this with your boss.
Posted by CT
Kate Upton's back
Member since Sep 2004
21054 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:02 pm to
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We have annual planning coming up in October


His problem. Not yours. People leave jobs every day.

Worry about yourself and your family.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:02 pm to
Do what is best for you. Just make sure you're confident the new job will keep you happy.

My wife was in a similar situation, but with a much more substantial bump in pay. She'll be giving her notice on Friday. We'll see how it goes.
Posted by JordonfortheJ
Bavaria-Germany
Member since Mar 2012
14547 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:03 pm to
quote:

Offered a job but don't want to burn bridges with current boss


you need to get over, in this world you better look out for yourself first...if he can't accept the fact that you have better opportunities for you then he isn't a very good friend.
Posted by OilfieldTrash
Somewhere Abroad
Member since Jun 2009
128 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:03 pm to
Always keep your family first. Help with the transition but don't pass up a chance at a better opportunity.
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:04 pm to
quote:

it is business. if you like the place so much, give them an opportunity to match or exceed

any boss should understand and appreciate you being up front with them


Solid advice right here.
Posted by Professor Parks
AZ
Member since Jul 2013
1112 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:04 pm to
I'm in a similar situation.

I'm staying because they've shown me loyalty and respect with a recent promotion, and the connections will pay off down the road.

My time will come.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97607 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:05 pm to
you can't base your decisions off of the company's needs


if they don't need you anymore I can promise they won't base their decision off your personal needs
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4231 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:05 pm to
8% of what?
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8361 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:06 pm to
Standard procedure is 2 weeks notice but 4 weeks is typically acceptable if you're important. Acceptable meaning your new employer should understand that you're important and honorable enough to not want to leave your old company hanging. Discuss options with your new boss as well. He may say take 2 months if necessary to leave on good terms. No worth while company wants to burn bridges or ask their employees to burn bridges.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136793 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:06 pm to
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She'll be giving her notice on Friday.
i would wait until Tuesday to ensure getting that paid holiday.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123867 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:08 pm to
You think they'd give two shits if they canned you?



Business is business. Look out for number one.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84041 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:09 pm to
Not worried about that. She gets paid for unused PTO which will take her to the new job's starting date.
Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23055 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:09 pm to
Sleep with his wife.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97607 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:09 pm to
yeah 8% wouldn't be enough for me to make a move unless I hated my current job
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:10 pm to
friendship is one thing, but business is business. Let your boss counter/match the existing offer. Otherwise, take care of yourself and go for the other job. That ember of dissatisfaction is likely to grow and you may regret not taking this offer down the road.
Unfortunately, in today's business world, there is no loyalty and you have to be selfish regarding your own future. I believe companies are completely selfish and self-serving. I wouldn't let a sense of loyalty ruin a good opportunity.
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