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re: No More Sex - How would you react?

Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:07 pm to
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
14438 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:07 pm to
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So my friend has 3 kids and he and his wife have been married for 15 years. They are happily married and still love each other, but he recently told me that they don't have sex anymore because she's no longer interested in it. He says he respects her wishes and just faps a lot. (He's also very confident she's not getting any on the side)


Youd be surprised just how normal this is after three kids and years of marriage. Speaking for a friend of course. Im tapping that shite everynight!
This post was edited on 8/25/16 at 7:08 pm
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
98453 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:07 pm to
See ya
Posted by Big EZ Tiger
Member since Jul 2010
24263 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:07 pm to
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She may have some kind of condition that effects her ability to WANT it...


Yes, I believe it's a condition called "Sidecockaesthesia".
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:08 pm to
Easy.

1. tell her she's fat
2. find a girlfriend
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259875 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:10 pm to
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Yes, I believe it's a condition called "Sidecockaesthesia".



They're normally pretty active at home when they're getting it on the side.
Posted by thetigerman
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
Member since Sep 2006
3630 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:11 pm to
Kids are 12, 10, and 7 years old. The couple is in their late 30's. She's always struck me as a little odd.

Now, on the other hand, I have a female cousin who thinks sex is only for procreation. I have no idea how her husband deals with that, but they're mormons so....
Posted by Zap Rowsdower
MissLou, La
Member since Sep 2010
13211 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:12 pm to
I hear Fleshlight has several nice new models.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:15 pm to
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I have a female cousin who thinks sex is only for procreation.


I knew a woman like that. She was raped by her drunk husband every couple of years. that was how they procreated. She was a very angry person.


Posted by Big EZ Tiger
Member since Jul 2010
24263 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:19 pm to
quote:


Yes, I believe it's a condition called "Sidecockaesthesia".



quote:

They're normally pretty active at home when they're getting it on the side.



Not with my wife...I mean, my friend's wife.



This post was edited on 8/25/16 at 7:21 pm
Posted by Amazing Moves
Member since Jan 2014
6044 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:24 pm to
He's being played.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
35341 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:24 pm to
I would start flirting with her friends in front of her. She'd be humping your leg shortly.


Or I would actively try to frick her friends
Posted by arktiger28
Member since Aug 2005
4781 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:37 pm to
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Kids are 12, 10, and 7 years old.


Then ignore what I said. With those ages she should have enough energy left to serve her husband weekly at the least. If he's a good dude to her then this isnt right. She needs to get checked out health wise then counseling to see what the real issue is.
Posted by G The Tiger Fan
Member since Apr 2015
103464 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:38 pm to
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They are happily married
quote:

they don't have sex anymore because she's no longer interested in it.
Is he interested in it? Sounds like she's more happily married than he is.
This post was edited on 8/25/16 at 7:40 pm
Posted by Big EZ Tiger
Member since Jul 2010
24263 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:42 pm to
Yeah, they might've both lost attraction to each other or something if neither seem that bothered by it. If his wife is in her 30s and has lost interest in sex, then something else is wrong and she needs to see what is going on medically as a few others have said.
Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
8807 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:44 pm to
She needs to get her hormones checked, could be an easy solve
Posted by arktiger28
Member since Aug 2005
4781 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:47 pm to
I've done a good bit of counseling with couples. Two things are always true when it comes to sex.

1. I've never met a husband that was 100% satisfied with the frequency of sex in his marriage.

2. If a couple can't come to an agreement where both are satisfied with the frequency of sex then sex is never the main issue.
Posted by BayouFann
CenLa
Member since Jun 2012
6868 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:50 pm to
Thats absurd and unreasonable. And she may not be sexing on the side yet but someone else might definitely have her attention. Thats all it takes!
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
6985 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:50 pm to
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Then ignore what I said. With those ages she should have enough energy left to serve her husband weekly at the least. If he's a good dude to her then this isnt right. She needs to get checked out health wise then counseling to see what the real issue is.


There could be all kind of reasons here. Hell, my first wife pulled this shite and turns out there was someone else...boy would the OT love to hear that tale.
But back to the issue at hand... How much effort does the OP put in to turn this around ? 3 kids are a handful. Do you offer any help ? Does the wife work outside the home ?
Maybe a little effort on the husband's part can pay some dividends here.
If that doesn't work it may be time for an arrangement.
Posted by TidenUP
Dauphin Island
Member since Apr 2011
14413 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:51 pm to
Well, if she's not interested, then I would definitely find it elsewhere. I've seen me do it.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
38636 posts
Posted on 8/25/16 at 7:51 pm to
tell him to get an asian
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