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Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:30 pm
Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
3737 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:30 pm
OT Alphas help me out. I'm in BR and have met a lady from NOLA. She is great in every aspect except she has at least 30 single or couple friends. Every time we do anything we are meeting said friends which often has me often picking up the tab or constantly going out all weekend. This past weekend was non stop Friday through Sunday.We had five separate things to do with her crew. It's wearing my old arse out

ETA- I'm not always picking up drinks but trying to be polite. The girl is out of my league. She is financially independent, no kids at home, and self employed which she can go at a moments notice. The question is I'm just tired of meeting all the new people every week but don't want to be a dick about it. So what to do?
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 7:26 pm
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134843 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:31 pm to
So what's the question?
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:31 pm to
quote:

she has at least 30 single or couple friends.


quote:

We had five separate things to do with her crew


By crew, you mean orgy friends, right?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:32 pm to
you're what brawds like that call a "sponsor," odds are you're not getting anywhere near that tang either, right?
Posted by John Keating
College Green, Ireland
Member since Jan 2015
2593 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:32 pm to
How old is your arse and how old is her arse?
Posted by TigersOfGeauxld
Just across the water...
Member since Aug 2009
25057 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:32 pm to
Inb4 "An OT Alpha wouldn't need to ask the OT."
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54476 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:32 pm to
quote:

OT Alphas help me out


You ain't no Alpha
Posted by GoldenBoy
Winning!
Member since Nov 2004
42010 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:33 pm to
What's the problem here?
Posted by Hugo Stiglitz
Member since Oct 2010
72937 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:33 pm to
Hit it and quit it.

Seriously
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15294 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:34 pm to
Dude you pihhb?
Posted by Draconian Sanctions
Markey's bar
Member since Oct 2008
84831 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:34 pm to
How long have you been seeing her? Have you slept with her? If so, more than once? Serious questions bc your situation changes dramatically based on the answers.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
28897 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:34 pm to
BS.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52642 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:34 pm to
quote:

Every time we do anything we are meeting said friends which often has me often picking up the tab


So you are picking up the tab for all of her friends too? If you are, then the joke is on you.

quote:

or constantly going out all weekend. This past weekend was non stop Friday through Sunday.We had five separate things to do with her crew. It's wearing my old arse out



You want young pussy, don't you?
Posted by QuietTiger
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2003
26256 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:34 pm to
Sounds like you're older than her, get what you can, don't give in too much and be prepared to walk.
Posted by dualed
Member since Sep 2010
4689 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:35 pm to
If you can't afford to pay for it all then move on. I'd agree that 3 days a week is taxing though. I don't do shite that often. I hope you're at least getting some poon out of this deal
Posted by southernelite
Dallas
Member since Sep 2009
53151 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:35 pm to
Jus having an upfront conversation with her. Tell her that you can't pick up the tab for all your outings, and that you do not wish to spend all of your free time going out with others. She'll either understand or you'll know now what type of girl she is. You win either way.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120170 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:36 pm to
You are picking up tab for whole group? You are getting used like Jared in prison bro
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54476 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:43 pm to
Cosmo a true OT alpha rounds up all these lady friends in the kitchen and says "whichever one of you lucky ladies makes the best sandwich can sleep with me first!"



OP you taking notes?
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 5:44 pm
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55973 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:49 pm to
quote:

Every time we do anything we are meeting said friends which often has me often picking up the tab


well, frick that...
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 5:50 pm
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39553 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 5:50 pm to
quote:

Every time we do anything we are meeting said friends which often has me often picking up the tab


I went on a few dates with a pretty girl. One day I met her friends on Bourbon, I paid for her and myself. We hook up some point later. The day after, I found out from my friend she expected me to pay for her friends that one time we were on Bourbon.

That was the end of that. Do the same.
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 5:51 pm
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