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Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:32 am
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
35903 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:32 am
How did you find a crazy level you could deal with and be happy??? Is she that hot and that cool... Or did you realize this as is as good as it gets.

I'm not overly picky... But I'm coming off a chick sending me 20+ text messages today without me responding to her. Probably the worst crazy clinger I've ever been with...

I want to believe there is a cool chick out there for me.... But I'm real doubtful
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:38 am to
All women are crazy. Plenty are cool.

Found one who puts out enough/is good looking enough to offset her crazy.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:46 am to
Been married for 18 years now. I wasn't looking to be in a relationship when I met my wife. After our first date I knew she was going to be my wife. We connected mentally so well it was like I knew her my entire life.

As for as being crazy, she absolutely has that crazy side that we like. Still to this day I will not put a gun in our house. She is crazy enough to use it on me when I eventually frick up. I won't even let her have pepper spray because I know I would be the one getting sprayed. For some reason, I like that craziness. Just enough crazy to keep things interesting.
This post was edited on 4/21/17 at 5:48 am
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:47 am to
If you're crazy radar is going off, listen to it.
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15325 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:50 am to
Married almost 40 years.

Be a man, if they're doing something too wacky tell them to stop. Walk away from the ones who won't.

Unless it's in the sack, different rules there.
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
17013 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:52 am to
I been married this time for 25 years. Two failures. Don't be a quitter she is out there. I am also her third.
Posted by Asharad
Tiamat
Member since Dec 2010
5678 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 5:58 am to
quote:

Married almost 40 years.

Be a man, if they're doing something too wacky tell them to stop. Walk away from the ones who won't.

Unless it's in the sack, different rules there.


Married 22 years, and I second this opinion.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
72582 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:07 am to
You need to leave the physical side out of the decision. THAT will always become a bit stale with time. We all only have just so many moves. You MUST find someone you can handle on a mental level...you know how smart you are...don't get a real dumbass who has NO interest in the things you like. Likewise, if you aren't too bright (and I suspect that is the case) then you will not likely attract a female brainy type. It happens but rarely...Also, if you can not laugh together, you will not make it.
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
17013 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:11 am to
Get the first one out of the way while you're young
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:18 am to
Live with her first....Make sure y'all have had fights and I mean all outs but still seem to meet in the middle when all is said and done. Put in the effort and make sure to see if she does the same. If that is the case then I'd give it a shot.

All women are crazy.
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:20 am to
How old is this girl texting you?

Based on the clingyness level I bet she is late 20s/early 30s and desperate to settle down with a provider
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
32595 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:24 am to
All women have some degree of crazy. If she's getting on your nerves when y'all are dating then drop her.

Personally I never wanted to get married but my junior year of college I met my wife at a baseball game. I specially remember thinking she was out of my league, but my grandfather always used to say "Go for women you think you can't get, hell you just may surprise yourself". We ended up talking about Aaron Nola (her dad is a huge baseball fan) and I couldn't help myself but to ask her out.

Long story short- I married her because she is extremely independent, going to be a doctor, runs every morning and I can have meaningful conversations with her. When I'm not with her, I want to be. At the same time we agreed that we should still do things seperatly on a monthly basis (I fish and she gets massages/pedicures).
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
25704 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:31 am to
Sounds like you would be better off with a guy.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15494 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:31 am to
quote:

Make sure y'all have had fights and I mean all outs but still seem to meet in the middle when all is said and done.


Make sure you are able to talk through it too, both of you, lots of marriages end because people refuse to talk to each other about small and big issues. One party can't do all the heavy lifting in the communication department.
This post was edited on 4/21/17 at 6:32 am
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67478 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:32 am to
quote:

I want to believe there is a cool chick out there for me

You'll find out one that has a crazy level that's on your frequency.
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:39 am to
Never stick your dick in crazy
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117671 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:39 am to
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I'm real doubtful



You're real gay.
Posted by LSUwag
Florida man
Member since Jan 2007
17318 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 6:59 am to
I was blinded by big tits and abundant pussy. I realized she was crazy a few years later.

Married 24 years. I ignore the crazy part. It's a skill that you must develop if you plan on staying married and raising your kids properly.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 7:15 am to
quote:

I was blinded by big tits


Pics. Now.
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
16151 posts
Posted on 4/21/17 at 7:23 am to
quote:

Be a man, if they're doing something too wacky tell them to stop. Walk away from the ones who won't. Unless it's in the sack, different rules there.


Third this opinion.

First problem is always with you. Be a man. Have a good job and a vision for your life. Become happy and positive and encouraging to others around you.

THEN....look for a partner. Date her for several years if possible. You can't hide crazy very long. If she acts crazy, walk away.

Rinse repeat until you succeed.

It's not that hard.
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