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re: Let's Talk About Grandfathers

Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:09 pm to
Posted by achenator
Member since Oct 2014
2942 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:09 pm to
Both of my grandfathers were great men. Both fought in WWII as teenagers , came home and built a great life. Both were very involved in the community when it was truly about helping and not politics. My Dad and I were talking about that today. Neither one of us will live up to their legacies civically.
Posted by dat yat
Chef Pass
Member since Jun 2011
4297 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:09 pm to
quote:


Summary: No matter what you believe about life, love the people around you. This game is short and the other players won't be around forever.

I heard dat. My grand daddy lived til I was in college and my pawpaw lived until my kids were in high school. They both taught me about life and what a man should be just by their example.
Tonight I put my only granddaughter to bed (1 yo) and it was her first night without both her parents. I hope to create as many memories an I can with her.
I have one grandmother still alive (92) and I hope to learn more from her before it's too late.
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11609 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:20 pm to
I was blessed to know both my grandfathers. Both are no longer here but I looked up to them both. I wish they could have met my children.
Posted by ever43
Raleigh, NC
Member since Aug 2009
2947 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:26 pm to
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My father and grandmother passed away this summer. It feels kind of strange to suddenly have no elders in the family. I've got a grandson who lives in La, got to meet him for the first time at my Dads funeral.


Agreed. We were lucky, my grandpa came up to visit us back in October of 2014 and meet his great grandson. He was only 6 months old at the time, so he obviously never remember it; but it was done more for him. We got a great picture on our porch of my son, me, my dad, and my grandpa. 4 generations in one pic is something I'll always cherish.
Posted by Zchlsu
Twin Peaks, Washington
Member since Jan 2011
6023 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:43 pm to
My granddad recently just passed away and he did everything he could to put me in position to get a baseball scholarship. He worked full time until the day he died (79) and the only thing that stopped him was a horse he was trying to ride falling on top of him. He made me realize what a man truly is.

I'm truly sorry for your loss! Tl;dr some granddads are absolutely amazing
This post was edited on 11/26/15 at 11:45 pm
Posted by DrunkerThanThou
Unfortunately Mississippi
Member since Feb 2013
2846 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:52 pm to
I don't have kids but I already know I'll probably hate hem. My future grandchildren though that's another story.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 11/26/15 at 11:57 pm to
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We got a great picture on our porch of my son, me, my dad, and my grandpa. 4 generations in one pic is something I'll always cherish.
Posted by zmanthetigerfan
Prairieville, LA
Member since Oct 2015
889 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 12:08 am to
Have an upvote man, I lived with my grandparents when I was younger and my dad was doing multiple tours of duty. My grandpa was my male figure growing up. Some of my earliest memories are sitting in a duck blind with him and him bringing me to church then us going get ice cream. He is skinny as a rail and eats almost half a tub of ice cream a night haha. He loved baseball and him and my grandmas brother (his BIL) coached little league together for almost 30 years. Last Christmas he sat us all down and passed out some of his heirlooms. He gave me some of his medals from his time in the army and an old pocket watch with a duck blind on the face, he wanted to make sure everything stayed in the family. I brought the watch to the jeweler to be refurbished and engraved and when I told him why the story of why I was getting it done he told me no charge. There's lots of good in this world and he has said countless times there's much more good than bad and that's always stuck with me. I never saw him cry until that Christmas day. He just recently had 2 heart stints put in and I'm just not looking forward to the day I have to say my final goodbyes. Yall won't hear from me for like a solid 6 months as I'll be locked in a room somewhere. Family first, always and forever. We don't talk to my dad's side, only his stepdad is alive and he hates his guts.
This post was edited on 11/27/15 at 12:12 am
Posted by Zchlsu
Twin Peaks, Washington
Member since Jan 2011
6023 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 12:14 am to
Wow, that's awesome man. Just have to remember to cherish the days you have. I know I have taken some days for granted.
Posted by zmanthetigerfan
Prairieville, LA
Member since Oct 2015
889 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 12:15 am to
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He loved baseball and him and my grandmas brother (his BIL) coached little league together for almost 30 years.
Double post and don't care, a few years ago a bunch of the boys he coached growing up got together and had a lunch for both my gpa and his BIL. It was about 100 now grown men and a bunch stood up and talked about how they both taught them so many life lessons. Lots of tears were shed, i have never been more proud of a man in my life. It was an amazing day
Posted by Mahootney
Lovin' My German Footprint
Member since Sep 2008
11872 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 12:21 am to
Yeah. Don't look at it as a negative. Some of us grew up without any grandparents. Some without parents. Just appreciate that you did get to know more about him and yourself.
Posted by rickyh
Positiger Nation
Member since Dec 2003
12450 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 12:35 am to
I was not really close to my grandfathers. I really only knew one of my grandmothers. The other died when I was 3. I am very close to my grandchildren. I worry what my death will do to them. But the price of love is costly. The more you love the deeper the pain when you lose someone. I know the pain because I lost a father and a son. My heart is with you.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30290 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 12:57 am to
My mom's dad is the only human being that never disappointed me. Fro the longest, I thought I felt that way because he was my grandfather, but it wasn't just me. I've met several people that knew him who have told me how good a man he was to them. Some worked with and for him. Others were just friends.

He died in the early 70's when I was in junior high. Until I was the fourth grade, my mom's two sisters and their sons all lived in Vidalia. We had Christmas Eve at our house and he would hand out the "To: From:" presents to everyone.My dad started doing it after he was gone

I moved back to Louisiana from Dallas in 2011. In the time since then, I've have met a couple of people that told me stories about him.

I did see my mom get really mad at him once. She didn't like him letting me smoke one of his pipes when I was in second or third grade.

Posted by Meat Newtons
Bon Secour Al
Member since Nov 2015
426 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 1:09 am to
Yup... This post reminds me of memories that I never had, but memories that I will pass on.
Posted by TexasTiger1185
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2011
13069 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 7:15 am to
Still have my Dad's father. And his father, too.

All together we have five generations between my great grandpa (103) and my son (5).

We get a picture of all of us every time we are together basically. I can't wait until Christmas when I get to see them all again
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 7:18 am to
Not a day goes by when I don't think about my grandpa
Posted by nc14
La Jolla
Member since Jan 2012
28193 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 7:18 am to
Grandfathers are the best!
Keep a picture of maternal grandparents in my wallet. Never had a wallet size of paternal GPs.
Posted by Nativebullet
Natchez, MS
Member since Feb 2011
5134 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 8:25 am to
both my Grandfathers had passed away prior to me being born. I've always thought what it would be like to have them.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
80834 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 8:29 am to
Lost one when I was 19 and the other one at 22

Both served in WW2

Great men

RIP S and C
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 11/27/15 at 8:36 am to
Yesterday would have been my paw paw's 90th bday(he passed away 5 years ago). I still miss him and can't believe he's been gone so long now. My grandmother(his wife) died 2 years after he did, so now I have no living grandparents(my father's parents died when I was very young).

Hearing others talk about my grandparents after they both passed made me realize just how much I didn't know about them. I wish I would have asked more questions while they were alive about their youth. If you still have living grandparents....ask them questions. How did they meet? What were they doing when they were your age? I would bet they have fascinating stories to tell you....and would love to tell them to you.
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