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Is Writing Thank You Cards Becoming A Lost Art?

Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:29 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113890 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:29 pm
This year I received a graduation card from someone who included a thank you letter in the envelop. It read "your gift will be much appreciated". I have never talked to the kid in my life, I know his dad, but have never met his family.

It was the first time I have ever received a thank you letter with an invite, but its more than the majority of people send over the past several years. I remember not wanting to write thank you letter, but my parents rode my arse until I finally did it. There was a point when I would get a thank you letter from everyone, but its not the case anymore. I'd say I might get 1 thank you letter for every 3 graduation cards. Do parents not make their kids write them?
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90442 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:29 pm to
it was never an art.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113890 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:30 pm to
It can be art.
Posted by NWLA Tiguh12
Member since Jul 2015
2402 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:30 pm to
Thank you letters suck.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:30 pm to
quote:

your gift will be much appreciated". I have never talked to the kid in my life, I know his dad, but have never met his family. 


Aww sounds like someone has a secret admirer
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141632 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:40 pm to
quote:

it was never an art
Posted by Broseph Barksdale
Member since Sep 2010
10571 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:43 pm to
I'm seeing handwritten letters making a comeback. Nearly every mom and pop bookstore I've been in lately has a 'write someone a letter' station with some stationary
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
35348 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:43 pm to
It's now thank you text.

Get with the times grandpa!
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
22889 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:45 pm to
I welcome the downfall of the handwritten thank you note. Makes it that much more appreciated, since I still write them.
Posted by dkreller
Laffy
Member since Jan 2009
30262 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:49 pm to
quote:

a graduation card from someone who included a thank you letter in the envelop. It read "your gift will be much appreciated".

what in the actual frick?

eta - to answer the OP, my wife and I still hand write thank you cards for gifts.
This post was edited on 6/5/16 at 5:52 pm
Posted by Rand AlThor
Member since Jan 2014
9373 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:50 pm to
Just don't see it as that big a deal.

Everyone feels the same about this stuff. Why torture ourselves?
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
21909 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:51 pm to
We got 7 graduation announcements last year. Sent gifts for all of them and got 2 thank you letters.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
31667 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:51 pm to
I still write them post job interviews mainly when interviewing with "old school" types. Thank you cards for wedding and grad gifts are essential in my opinion. Birthday and Christmas....typically a text or in person thank you the next time suffices.
Posted by SouthTiger504
Member since Sep 2014
1163 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:56 pm to
This thread makes me feel much better about not writing my thank you letters
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141632 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:57 pm to
Posted by luvdatigahs
Alameda, CA
Member since Sep 2008
3012 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:57 pm to
I've gotten around to making my own personalized Christmas cards. They are much better than a cheesy card that says "merry christmas"
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113890 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 5:58 pm to
quote:

Get with the times grandpa!


Get off my lawn.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36703 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 6:13 pm to
My son is in the process of writing his thank you notes ... I told him he shouldn't cash a single check until the thank you notes are written.

There are a couple of people that he saw in person and said thank you but I'm still asking/encouraging that he write a thank you. It's polite!
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
3320 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 6:20 pm to
I told my kids that if they couldn't take the time to write a thank you, they didn't deserve the gift.
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 6/5/16 at 6:37 pm to
quote:

Just don't see it as that big a deal. Everyone feels the same about this stuff. Why torture ourselves?


Just to know the person actually received our gift is reason enough.
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