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How much time did you get/take off when your first child was born?

Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:47 am
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
29200 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:47 am
So we have our first little GEAUXT coming in August. I'll probably be able to take a day for when she's born and then back to work the next day. Wife is taking 8 weeks, but only part of that is paid.

We were at the bank, and the lady helping us told us that at Capital One men get 7 weeks paid paternity leave, and women get 18 paid maternity leave. That's crazy talk!
Posted by Jack Bauers HnK
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
5699 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:48 am to
My boss gave me a week and the wife got 12 months with FMLA.
Posted by PhilipMarlowe
Member since Mar 2013
20463 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:48 am to
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7 weeks paid paternity leave


i imagine most dads would be dying to go back to work by the end of that.
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
22773 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:49 am to
3 weeks for the 1st kid.

2 weeks for the 2nd.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83510 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:49 am to
I took 2 weeks vacation. No paid paternity leave for me.

My wife had 12 weeks paid, then took another nonpaid 4 weeks. It was nice.
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
22773 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:50 am to
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7 weeks paid paternity leave


Would be awesome.
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17406 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:50 am to
1 week
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84039 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:50 am to
My company let me work from home for 12 weeks. My wife was in nursing school and had to be back the next week or would have had the entire semester not count.

I couldn't imagine going back to work the next day. Your wife and baby won't even be out the hospital yet.
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:50 am to
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My wife had 12 weeks paid, then took another nonpaid 4 weeks. It was nice.



Get her arse back to work. Her coworkers probably hate her.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:50 am to
About a week.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32699 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:51 am to
I have one due in August. Talked to my boss last week and told him I was taking 2-3 weeks.

My wife is taking the full 12 weeks of FMLA.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32699 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:52 am to
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12 months with FMLA.
I'm sure you mean weeks.
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:52 am to
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My wife is taking the full 12 weeks of FMLA.


FMLA should be eliminated.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62688 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:53 am to
First child I took one week of paid paternity and one week vacation, I think. Second kid just the one week paternity but I was working while at the hospital.

#3 coming in September is coming right after my employer instituted 4 weeks paid paternity. I'll take 2 for the birth and then 2 in December that will run into my 2 weeks off for Christmas and new years.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102941 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:54 am to
I quit my job to stay home with the kid so my wife could work without interruption.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9784 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:55 am to
My husband took off 5 days with first born and 2 days with second child.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83510 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:55 am to
Nope. She will probably take off longer for the next one.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32699 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:55 am to
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FMLA should be eliminated


Why? She has enough sick leave and personal leave built up to be able to be paid for the whole time.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16437 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:58 am to
My son was born this January on a Saturday night. I only took off Monday and came in a couple of hours late on Tuesday. I could have taken more, but I was saving days for when my wife went back to work so I could take off and spend a few days with him then (I was also building up some goodwill to come in late a few days during turkey season)
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32015 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 10:59 am to
Me and the wife are having our first kid in august. She gets 12 weeks, and i get 12 weeks paid.
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