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Has anyone here ever ended up marrying someone after a bad first date?

Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:50 pm
Posted by SwaggerCopter
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:50 pm
I'm not talking about things going bad (like bad food, etc.). I'm talking about just not being very interested in the person.

I don't really get the point in going on a second date just in case. If there's no spark, there's no spark. But I'd love a good counter example.
This post was edited on 6/10/15 at 2:58 pm
Posted by RaphsDoublePlay
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2015
92 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:52 pm to
Your date with a yell leader didn't go well I presume?
Posted by TigerChief10
Member since Dec 2012
10858 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:53 pm to
Yeah my first wife. Ended up getting divorced because I cheated on her. Shouldn't have even married her. Would've saved a lot of trouble for us both
Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:53 pm to
My wife did.
Posted by AUjim
America
Member since Dec 2012
3660 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:54 pm to
Absolutely.

First date was a blind date and not a good one. Not completely turned away, but no spark. 14 years later, I'm glad I got the second.
Posted by LSUGUMBO
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:54 pm to
I don't know if this counts or not, but my wife and I started dating when I was 22, she was 25. I was working my first real job out of college making a whopping $28K/year and didn't really date a whole lot in college, so I wasn't really used to paying for 2.

When the check came, it was something like $55 and the waiter said "Here's the check, sir." I took 1 look at the bill and said "He better call me sir!" as if that was a lot of money. I'm sure that she was less than thrilled, but it worked out, and today is our 9th Anniversary.
Posted by SwaggerCopter
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:55 pm to
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I cheated on her.


I can't imagine doing such a thing.
Posted by Jack Daniel
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:55 pm to
I honestly don't want to hear about a gay date.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:57 pm to
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"He better call me sir!"


Posted by SwaggerCopter
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:57 pm to
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I honestly don't want to hear about a gay date.


That's why I avoided personal details. You're welcome.
Posted by Artie Rome
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Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:57 pm to
quote:

I don't really get the point on going on a second date just in case. If there's no spark, there's no spark. But I'd love a good counter example.


I don't disagree. But remember, love is a verb. It's a choice. Those big tits will become old hat.
Posted by Pettifogger
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:58 pm to
I agree there needs to be a connection that develops, but plenty of strong and lasting relationships don't have this romantic comedy "spark" shite.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 2:59 pm to
These two hung out together for a long time but finally got to know each other after a first date or apple or some other fruit.

Posted by Tuscaloosa
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:00 pm to
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But remember, love is a verb. It's a choice.


Wiser words have probably never been spoken.
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
27226 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:00 pm to
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I don't disagree. But remember, love is a verb. It's a choice. Those big tits will become old hat.


Same page. Completely agree.
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11400 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:02 pm to
I will. My first date with my girlfriend was pretty boring, but I didn't have anything else going on the next weekend and her friend wanted us to go out on a double date in Oxford, so I took her out again. It was an excellent decision. Second date was way better/more eventful. We will definitely be getting married one day.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101914 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:02 pm to
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Eve was one trashy skank.
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:04 pm to
Yeah. God made Eve with a tattoo?
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
28763 posts
Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:36 pm to
i met my wife by accidentally tackling her in coed flag football. she was super pissed and didn't talk to me for months and said she was avoiding me at social functions.

finally we were at a church retreat where we woke up early and were drinking coffee together and the only ones up at that hour. then i couldn't keep her off the D after she got to know me beyond tackling her.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 6/10/15 at 3:39 pm to
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we were at a church retreat where we woke up early and were drinking coffee together and the only ones up at that hour. then i couldn't keep her off the D after she got to know me beyond tackling her.

By the "D" you mean decaffeinated coffee.

You ARE an Aggie.

Two errors on one play to lose a Super Regional.
Great work on the Ole Miss impression.

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