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Friend getting divorced has a plan to get his daughter

Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:16 am
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16044 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:16 am
His wife took their daughter and has not let him have time with her at all. He has to drive 4.5 hrs to see her. She has only agreed to a couple of visits in three months. She is coming to get her things this weekend and she asked a mutual friend to watch the baby because she doesn't want him to see her. He is planning on picking her up from the friend and keeping her. The friend is secretly on his side and has been sending screenshots of txts with his wife. Is there a problem with his plan? Seems legit to me.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86428 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:17 am to
Does the mom have custody? If so,

quote:

He is planning on picking her up from the friend and keeping her.


is the worst idea ever.


Oh wait, rebeloke thread. Nevermind. Yeah totally go for it.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65491 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:17 am to
this won't end well.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:17 am to
Couldn't he just walk across the trailer park?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32698 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:18 am to
what is the custody agrreement like?

looks like a good way to get an amber alert started.
Posted by Phil A Sheo
equinsu ocha
Member since Aug 2011
12166 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:19 am to
Divorce proceeding typically have distance provisions in place to prevent shite like this from happening. So, yeah pick up kid...keep her until the courts settle it and make that skank POS mother move closer.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123797 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:19 am to
Best choice would be to shoot the ex wife and put her in a meat grinder.



That way he'd have sole custody
Posted by Anonymous95
Member since Sep 2014
2074 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:20 am to
quote:

looks like a good way to get an amber alert started.

If this clown ruins football coverage on Saturday, I'm going to be pissed.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16044 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:20 am to
No agreement. She left 3 months ago. Hasn't filed anything. He has a plan filed but not served yet. He is asking for primary custody.
Posted by Eric Stratton
Faber College
Member since Mar 2015
2049 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:20 am to
He should wear all black and a ski mask just so he doesn't alarm anyone and to make sure that everyone knows of his harmless intentions..... maybe a water gun spray painted to look real... everyone loves a good joke.

Posted by Kingwood Tiger
Katy, TX
Member since Jul 2005
14162 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:20 am to
If there is no agreement, he just needs to document all of his attempts to see his daughter and that the wife would not allow. Then when they go to court she will look horrible in the eye of the judge (hopefully) and he will be given custody or more visitation. If he goes and just takes the kid he is gonna look as bad as she does. How old is the kid?
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26378 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:22 am to
Divorcing parents who do stuff out of spite only harm the kids.... Someone should sit down with both of them and tell them to grow the frick up...

This is why some lawyer friends of mine quit doing divorces... People can really be assholes...
This post was edited on 11/12/15 at 9:27 am
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97604 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:22 am to
what could go wrong?
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16044 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:23 am to
Kid is 10 months
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65558 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:24 am to

I would really discourage this if true. Although they're not divorced, temporary visitation orders should be in place.

If he wants to make shite incredibly difficult in court down the line, kidnapping claims will do the trick.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:25 am to
quote:

Then when they go to court she will look horrible in the eye of the judge (hopefully) and he will be given custody or more visitation.
That's 50/50 at best. If the judge is a woman, who knows.
Posted by Boagni Swamp
Right next door to No Face
Member since Oct 2015
912 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:27 am to
Yeah. Cuz that's what's gonna be good for his kid, ripping her away from momma and putting her in the middle of a legal fight that may go criminal. Sure. Do that.

Or, he could act like a man, get a frickin lawyer, and deal with what's happening.

Add to that, and I say this as someone with real experience in these situations, when one parent flees with the child, there is a good chance there is some abuse going on. I don't know your friend or his wife, and it's possible she is just a ruthless beeyotch. It's also possible there are things going on that your friend ain't telling you.
Posted by kjntgr
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2004
8481 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:28 am to
Please wait until after LSU football game. Don't want amber alerts every 5 minutes .
Posted by Mootsman
Charlotte, NC
Member since Oct 2012
6024 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:28 am to
That is a textbook case of kidnapping. Have you ever watched a single Lifetime movie bro?
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
13816 posts
Posted on 11/12/15 at 9:29 am to
quote:

He has to drive 4.5 hrs to see her.


Did she take the kid across a state line?
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