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re: Divorced Dads of the OT who don’t raise their kids
Posted on 10/23/17 at 10:52 am to Displaced
Posted on 10/23/17 at 10:52 am to Displaced
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But it does have to do with getting divorced in the first place.
SS is addressing the root of the problem all you trashy baws are facing.
I've never been divorced. And the trashy baws in here are just addressing that posting ignorantly is even trashier than being a divorced single parent.
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Posted on 10/23/17 at 10:57 am to Evil Little Thing
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It took persistence and a good attorney, but it wasn’t hard.
Doesn't sound like it was easy either.
Luckily, I've never been put in this situation, but some men don't have the funds (after being taken to the cleaners by the ex) to hire quality attorneys to fight for equal time.
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:00 am to Displaced
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But it does have to do with getting divorced in the first place.
So, the option was to NOT marry her and let someone else raise YOUR kids?
Make up your fricking minds.
shite.
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:02 am to 19
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So, the option was to NOT marry her and let someone else raise YOUR kids?
Wut?
you had kids out of wedlock, got married, and then got divorced and are fighting for custody.
Poor life decisions level 1000
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:07 am to 19
quote:so we’ve stepped up the ante now... bad decision on knocking up a chick followed by an even worse decision of marrying her, all while knowing the courts are slanted against men?
So, the option was to NOT marry her and let someone else raise YOUR kids?
Lawd
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:07 am to Displaced
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Wut?
you had kids out of wedlock, got married, and then got divorced and are fighting for custody.
Poor life decisions level 1000
many of life's problems can be fixed by just keeping your dick in your pants. or masturbating instead.
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:10 am to 3nOut
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many of life's problems can be fixed by just keeping your dick in your pants.
Sometimes it's harder than you think.
A man with a hard dick will go places a man with a loaded gun won't go.
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:14 am to Evil Little Thing
I know a family who recently went through a divorce. He almost never sees his kids other than “cool dad” situations- taking them on a trip they wanted to go on, etc. Their kids live with mom and are with her almost 100% of the time. I’ve yet to see him at any school function- parents night, extracurricular activities their kids are involved in, anything. Apparently he moved on pretty quickly from the whole family. Mom still gets along with her ex-in laws and makes sure their kids spend a good amount of tome with them.
It’s situations like that that I just cannot comprehend. Every time I think about it it makes me really angry. Those kids never asked for dad to leave. I guess the bright side is the less they are influenced by someone with his lack of character the better off they will be.
It’s situations like that that I just cannot comprehend. Every time I think about it it makes me really angry. Those kids never asked for dad to leave. I guess the bright side is the less they are influenced by someone with his lack of character the better off they will be.
This post was edited on 10/23/17 at 11:30 am
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:14 am to REB BEER
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Sometimes it's harder than you think.
oh i understand it is.
i'm an old married dude who has only slept with one woman. not judging anybody that lives life differently, you guys go get your dick wet to your heart's content. i applaud you.
i'm just recognizing that i have less drama than most due to my decisions
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:20 am to djangochained
So if you weren’t granted sole custody, you would kidnap them?
That’s a sure way to not be around them forever
That’s a sure way to not be around them forever
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:22 am to djangochained
quote:i'm pretty sure divorce would.
Nothing would ever separate me from my kids, NOTHING
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:23 am to SuperSaint
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quote:
So, the option was to NOT marry her and let someone else raise YOUR kids?
so we’ve stepped up the ante now... bad decision on knocking up a chick followed by an even worse decision of marrying her, all while knowing the courts are slanted against men?
With you on this one. Having a child is not a reason to get married, unfortunately when you had the child you probably didn't see/realize that. If you did then that was incredibly stupid.
Why would someone else raise your child because you didn't marry her?
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:32 am to Thib-a-doe Tiger
nah, i would make sure i got custody by any means necessary
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:33 am to Evil Little Thing
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It took persistence and a good attorney, but it wasn't hard
Lol. You forgot the main part, alot of MONEY
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:33 am to djangochained
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:36 am to djangochained
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nah, i would make sure i got custody by any means necessary
I’m not sure you understand how courts work
This post was edited on 10/23/17 at 11:37 am
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:39 am to djangochained
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nah, i would make sure i got custody by any means necessary
Killing the mother of your children doesn't make you a good father.
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:42 am to Wayne Campbell
this thread seems incomplete without Walt
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:44 am to BR Tiger
Just sounds like a shite head dad. I have known some like this. Most of the friends I know that have gone through Divorce are great dad's even if they are no longer married. I lived every day with my 3 kids for 12 years when I was married. My ex wife thought there were greener pastures and cheated on me. SHE cheated and took my 2 youngest with her 6 hours away. My oldest stayed with me. She took everything and hid behind the courts. For almost 2 years I was fricking broke and couldn't afford a lawyer but I saw my kids I drove 6 hours one way after work and got a cheap arse hotel but I saw them. Fast forward 6 years my ex wife has been through another husband and 3 boyfriends and guess what my now 17 year old, 18 year old and 20 year old see her for what she is a me me materialistic woman. They barely have a relationship with her and I have great relationships with all 3 of them because I always put them first not money and other fake relationships. Fwiw I have a long term gf now and I am loving life.
This post was edited on 10/23/17 at 12:06 pm
Posted on 10/23/17 at 11:50 am to FLBooGoTigs1
Yeah, he seems to be a piece of crap. I don’t know him personally. I do know the mom and kids. And although there’s always 2 sides to the story, I know that she isn’t keeping the kids away from him. She would welcome the relief of someone sharing child rearing responsibilities even if it meant difficult and uncomfortable situations due to their own personal issues between the two of them.
Glad to hear that your situation has improved over the years and your kids see the truth about you.
Glad to hear that your situation has improved over the years and your kids see the truth about you.
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