Also I didn't mention it earlier because I saw your post on like page 4, but you made a good point about "distractions" at school. When I was growing up, we couldn't wear any sort of baseball hat or cap, couldnt' die your hair weird colors, couldn't wear crazy arse shirts with offensive slogans, etc...basically anything that "distracted" from the learning environment was prohibited.
Yet they're gonna let this little boy die his hair purple, wear a dress, and use the girl's room? This whole situation just stinks to high heaven. They're putting the feelings of 1 above the feelings of hundreds and that just sucks.