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re: Best advice for someone about to get a divorce
Posted on 8/28/15 at 10:23 am to Meauxjeaux
Posted on 8/28/15 at 10:23 am to Meauxjeaux
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Don't listen to anything on the OT?
Heyyy a couple of us gave legit specific advice besides PIIHB and Lawyer Up.
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Posted on 8/28/15 at 10:25 am to CorkSoaker
Ya better off with a whore.. At least you know what ya got
Posted on 8/28/15 at 11:57 am to Hiawatha
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When there's a divorce, generally it's because the mom and dad are no longer joking or loving. Kids can sense tension. In an ideal world, yes, the parents stay together, but I don't think that kids are any worse off following a divorce than they'd be with parents who dislike each other. In fact--I'd argue the exact opposite. If things are that tense, the kids are better off post-divorce. And they're certainly better off if the divorced parents can be civil with one another and are on the same page regarding parenting.
From my observations of families that go through this, divorce is pretty hard on the kids. If the parents are civil before the divorce and just got bored or something they may or may not be civil afterwards. But either way the kids are better off with one home and family.
If the parents bicker with each other before the divorce, they will bicker with each other during after the divorce. And often the kids are used as bargaining chips. In this instance too the kids are usually better off with one home and family.
Then you have the whole thing with dealing with "step" families.
Bottom line is that except in cases of domestic abuse, in most of these cases one or both of the parents are just selfish and put their own wants over the needs of the kids.
Posted on 8/28/15 at 12:33 pm to CorkSoaker
Bend over, grab your ankles and back into the lawyers office. If you and your wife are on decent terms you will only get it with plenty of lube. If not, it will be a gangbang with sandpaper rubbers.
Posted on 8/28/15 at 1:00 pm to CorkSoaker
just finishing up one.
1. keep kids out-don't talk trash about the other (almost impossible to do)
2. don't communicate with ex anymore than necessary
3. avoid alone time
4. understand that even if she isn't out to screw u, her lawyer is.
5. keep kids out-don't talk trash about the other (almost impossible to do)
1. keep kids out-don't talk trash about the other (almost impossible to do)
2. don't communicate with ex anymore than necessary
3. avoid alone time
4. understand that even if she isn't out to screw u, her lawyer is.
5. keep kids out-don't talk trash about the other (almost impossible to do)
Posted on 8/28/15 at 2:33 pm to CorkSoaker
Best advice I ever got was don't make any plans for the next 12 months that cost more than $100 and last longer than a day.
Posted on 8/28/15 at 2:36 pm to CorkSoaker
Treat it like a Band-Aid. Rip it off w/ the quickness.
Date a ton, don't let any of 'em move in.
Move on and don't bad mouth the ex to the new batch. Nobody likes sad songs.
Date a ton, don't let any of 'em move in.
Move on and don't bad mouth the ex to the new batch. Nobody likes sad songs.
Posted on 8/28/15 at 2:39 pm to CorkSoaker
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Just the typical she's crazy and he wants out scenario. He already has the best attorney. Just wanted to help him if I could with some words of wisdom from the OT.
Crazy, eh?
Share evidence.
Posted on 8/28/15 at 2:42 pm to CorkSoaker
prepare ahead of time, prior to filing
collect recos for a lawyer and interview them [ time permitting ]
talk to other divorced guys and find out what didn't they see coming?
what should they have done but didn't think of it
collect recos for a lawyer and interview them [ time permitting ]
talk to other divorced guys and find out what didn't they see coming?
what should they have done but didn't think of it
Posted on 8/28/15 at 2:46 pm to tigerfan84
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"Cheaper to keep'er"
Posted on 8/28/15 at 3:10 pm to CorkSoaker
Is it taboo to still crush your new ex wife?
Posted on 8/28/15 at 4:20 pm to CadesCove
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She was screwing someone while he was out of town on business? What a skank.
You got it backwards. Husband was the one cheating. And by the way, the kids are grown and don't care if they ever see their father again after what he did to the mother (and for so long...)
This post was edited on 8/28/15 at 4:22 pm
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