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Are you closer with your family than your SO?
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:55 am
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:55 am
I think it says alot if you'd choose anyone over your family. Of course the first conversation I have with any girl I'm getting serious with is my family comes first and they have to be ok with that and unknown my family will always welcome whatever gurl I bring home because they care for my happiness and trust my decisions. I feel like if you chose your spouse over your parents it shows you had a strained relationship in the past
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:56 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
They're typically the same in Arkansas, yes?
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:57 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Last I checked if you get married your wife becomes your family. Your entire mentality on this is pretty dumb.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:58 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
When you get married or in a relationship that is heading that route, that person becomes your family. If you'd choose mommy over your woman, you have either a shitty woman or you're fricked in the head.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:58 am to ell_13
The fact that someone from the same state as new Iberia and houma is making fun of someone else for trashy and backwoods is pot meeting the kettle
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:59 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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gurl
What are you, 10 years old?
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:59 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
quote:Certainly true in my case.
I feel like if you chose your spouse over your parents it shows you had a strained relationship in the past
Mostly because I do things my way. My wife accepts this, my parents never have.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:59 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Family always comes first.
Of course, your definition of family will change with marriage, especially after children.
Of course, your definition of family will change with marriage, especially after children.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:59 am to SaintBrees
No I'm saying it would never come to choosing because I settle that beforehand
Posted on 4/13/17 at 10:59 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
That's pretty silly. There is not a single person on this earth that I will ever intentionally put before my wife. Not my parents, not kids, not anyone.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to Tuscaloosa
You wouldn't put your kids before your wife?
This post was edited on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
If forced, I would choose my spouse over anyone in my family and I have a great relationship with my parents and siblings
Now if its over something absolutely ridiculous that my wife is being unreasonable about I will absolutely tell her she's being unreasonable and will only support her as far as rational arguments would allow
but my wife and family get along great so they've never really had any arguments
Now if its over something absolutely ridiculous that my wife is being unreasonable about I will absolutely tell her she's being unreasonable and will only support her as far as rational arguments would allow
but my wife and family get along great so they've never really had any arguments
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
I also don't see how anyone you'd potentially marry could be okay with that.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to SaintBrees
I choose the family I picked.
Just because they're blood doesn't mean they can't be assholes.
Just because they're blood doesn't mean they can't be assholes.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
I'm not particulary close with my family. there are no issues or anything, I just kind of went my own way. My parents are involved in my kids lives, but, we are just not that super close.
My wife talks to her mom at least twice a day and her sister at least once a day.
I think in the end, she would choose whomever she agreed with. She would not blindly choose me or her family.
My wife talks to her mom at least twice a day and her sister at least once a day.
I think in the end, she would choose whomever she agreed with. She would not blindly choose me or her family.
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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I feel like if you chose your spouse over your parents it shows you had a strained relationship in the past
Once you are married, your spouse is your family dipshit.
And yes, I would choose my wife over my parents if it came down to it. Also, I would choose my kid over my wife, and she would do the same to me. (In a life or death situation)
This post was edited on 4/13/17 at 11:01 am
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:00 am to ell_13
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They're typically the same in Arkansas, yes?
Well... that's a wrap for this thread
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:01 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
I'm not a religious person, but I follow this advice in the Bible:
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Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24
Posted on 4/13/17 at 11:01 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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You wouldn't put your kids before your wife?
Not under any reasonable circumstance. If she was mistreating them, sure. All factors remaining neutral, wife comes first.
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