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Am I becoming a soft touch in old age? You decide. (UPDATE)

Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:51 pm
Posted by TigerMikeAtl
Atlanta, GA
Member since Feb 2011
1974 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:51 pm
I posted this Tuesday and several asked for an update if available. Today my friend called and informed me that this young lady was waiting for him when he arrived at his office Wednesday morning. When she gave him his business card, with my note, he went ahead with an interview and was quite impressed. He sent her for a drug test for that day then scheduled her for their aptitude exam/test this morning which she easily passed.
Her first day of employment with his company is Monday. She is being hired in as a production assistant trainee at $12.80 an hour. After a 90 training period she will receive a 10% bump in pay, become eligible for full company benefits including company paid medical coverage for her and her two daughters.
The reason I am reposting this, despite some of the crude remarks that some made, is to show that sometimes God may put you in position to help. Embrace that situation rather than run from that chance to help.

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Today at the grocery store I was waiting in line when a black woman in her early 30' in line behind me, noticed my LSU sweatshirt. She asked if I was from LA and I told her I was raised just south of the LSU campus off Starring Lane. She told me she was raised in New Roads (where I have fond memories fishing at False River) but she later moved to N.O. with her husband when she became pregnant and got married. She said that shortly after moving her husband became involved in the drug trade and quit his job. She was already pregnant with her second child at that time. Then Katrina came and they had to move and came to the Atlanta area. She told me that they received some kind of check from the Government or insurance company 10 months later for several thousand dollars. When her husband got his hands on the check he cashed it in and went back to N.O. and deserted his family.

Her 2 girls were with her in line and both spoke ever so politely to me while waiting, unlike other children their age around here. As the cashier was ringing me up I happened to notice that almost every one of her food items on the belt had been reduced as they were about to go out of date such as meat and produce. That got my attention. I finished paying and walked a short distance away and watched. She paid cash and by the appearance of it, it was all she could afford. I followed behind her to her car, an early 90's Chevy. That's when I caved.

I approached her and told that I had been observing her when in line and wanted to know more about her situation not knowing how she would react to an old white guy being nosy. She took a deep breath and told me the rest of her story. She had lost her job because the company she had worked for went bankrupt three months earlier. She was on unemployment but had refused food stamps because she didn't feel it was right. She had gotten some help from her church but it was far short of what they needed.
I reached into my wallet and took out all the cash I had on me...$247.00...and asked her to take it. At first she refused but after seeing I was serious gave in. I also gave her one of my best friends business card and told her to call him for a job, which I'm sure he will offer her. It was another 10 minutes before we parted, after exchanging numbers and hugs from all three of them. The only thing she could offer me was a free home cooked Louisiana meal once she starts back to work and can afford the crawfish.

This is not normal behavior for me (ex-Marine and all) but something clicked inside of me. I'm just wondering if others on this board can relate?
Posted by MrSmith
Member since Sep 2009
8311 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:53 pm to
Man you're in your head too much. Relax
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64330 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:53 pm to
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134817 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:54 pm to
I thought you weren't supposed to brag about these acts of kindness
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
67972 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:55 pm to
So far so good. Update us at 90 days please. You may reduce my cynicism a bit.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
67972 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:55 pm to
At this point it's not bragging. I'd like to see how it plays out.
Posted by TidenUP
Dauphin Island
Member since Apr 2011
14406 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:56 pm to
Is it bragging if he provides an update that may have been requested? He's not really spiking the football
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
52723 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:56 pm to
You are such a great person but also a hard arse because you're a Marine. Thank you for your service. God bless your soul
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:57 pm to
Say ber, lemme holla at you one time. Real talk. You think she suck yo dick? Get dat urine test fada itch anda aids den go ta town, brah. Skilly skilly bipbap aight. Hahaaaaaaa
This post was edited on 1/27/17 at 8:03 pm
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:57 pm to
I guess you want a prize? Get over yourself nerd.
Posted by stout
Smoking Crack with Hunter Biden
Member since Sep 2006
167034 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 7:59 pm to
That's great of you. Nothing wrong with helping a fellow human in need.

Only issue I have is you seeking validation for it on here.

Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66371 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:00 pm to
quote:

he went ahead with an interview and was quite impressed. He sent her for a drug test for that day then scheduled her


god i was praying she would hit positive for coke and bud. wouldve been a beautiful, Tanden-esque turn of events
Posted by NikeShox
Toula Baw
Member since Sep 2016
1251 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:02 pm to
I think you are full of shite. Dumb arse story. Are you high?
Posted by stout
Smoking Crack with Hunter Biden
Member since Sep 2006
167034 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:02 pm to
quote:

You think she'll suck yo dick?


LINK
Posted by HailToTheChiz
Back in Auburn
Member since Aug 2010
48871 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:03 pm to
Good deal
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:05 pm to
quote:

despite some of the crude remarks

There's evil and punk bitches everywhere.
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:06 pm to
And idiots seeking validation too.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20376 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:06 pm to
OP I wish her the best, but I've come to realize that most people get where they are out of effor or lack there of. A lower percentage than what you think gets lucky or unlucky in careers. The odds are against her she lasts, but hopefully for your sake she breaks the odds.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:09 pm to
Is she gonna frick ya or not ?
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 1/27/17 at 8:09 pm to
Just read the update. Awesome story, I hope it works out for her and her kids.
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