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21% of people say: Sexist for men to hold open a door for women in online poll

Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:16 pm
Posted by ihometiger
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:16 pm
Is it considered sexist for a man to hold a door open for a woman?

Some lady yelled at me yesterday at Willis Tower for opening the door for her and letting her go before me. She screamed that she is more than capable of opening the door all by herself. I let the door close on her and walked in front of her instead. I can't believe 21% of people think this is sexist but then again maybe I'm a product of my generation.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:17 pm to
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Some lady yelled at me yesterday at Willis Tower for opening the door for her and letting her go before me. She screamed that she is more than capable of opening the door all by herself. I let the door close on her and walked in front of her instead.
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Posted by Mars duMorgue
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:18 pm to
The good looking ones tend to appreciate the gesture. The dogs? Not so much.
Posted by Old Money
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:18 pm to
I actually experienced this for this first time back in Miami. It was a 2 door, each back to back, type lobby. I was holding the first door when the lady told me she could open a door for herself so I went out of my way to close the second door on her while she was opening it
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:19 pm to
Nubian Princesses appreciate the frick out of the kind gesture
Posted by Eighteen
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:19 pm to
Well I'm sure 21% of women are fat ugly bitches who hold grudges against men so it makes sense
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:19 pm to
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Some lady yelled at me yesterday at Willis Tower

This post was edited on 8/20/16 at 3:20 pm
Posted by Missile
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:21 pm to
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The good looking ones tend to appreciate the gesture. The dogs? Not so much.


Things that make you go hmmm...
Posted by Pitch To Johnny
Houston
Member since Jun 2015
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:22 pm to
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21% of people say: Sexist for men to hold open a door for women in online poll




I will continue to hold open doors. Gives me comfort to know that anyone that takes offense to it is probably hopelessly miserable at all times anyway.
Posted by saint amant steve
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:23 pm to
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21% of people say: Sexist for men to hold open a door for women in online poll


I say it's sexist for most of these individuals, presuming that the majority are women, to assume that the only reason I am holding the door open is because there is a woman behind me.

I hold the door open for men and women. Young and old. Fat and thin. Rich and poor. All races. All ages. All shapes and sizes.

It's just an act of common courtesy like letting a car make a left turn from a business/parking lot when traffic is backed up.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:24 pm to
I open doors for everybody.
Posted by Amazing Moves
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:29 pm to
What if you slam it in their face?
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:35 pm to
I guess I don't get the sexist part. I'll hold open doors, especially for older people or someone with a bunch of stuff in their arms. I just figure it's a general common courtesy.
Posted by Mars duMorgue
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:38 pm to
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Things that make you go hmmm...

No kidding. I mean, why waste your gallantry on an ugly broad?
Posted by bigpetedatiga
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Member since Aug 2009
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:39 pm to
Is that why none of them say thank you?
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:41 pm to
quote:

lady yelled


quote:

she screamed


Yeah that happened
This post was edited on 8/20/16 at 3:42 pm
Posted by ihometiger
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:41 pm to
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I mean, why waste your gallantry on an ugly broad?


She wasn't an ugly woman which is what surprised me the most. She had to be a female attorney as she fit that mold quite well.
Posted by shutterspeed
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Member since May 2007
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:41 pm to
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I open doors for everybody.


It's gay if you open doors for men (even gayer if you accept the open door), though.
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:42 pm to
That's just more motivation to always hold the door open...

Either the gesture is appreciated, or it pisses off some dumbass butt faced woman. Win-win.
Posted by Hangit
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Member since Aug 2014
39040 posts
Posted on 8/20/16 at 3:42 pm to
That means the 79% of people think it is not racist.

Maybe if you ask her to prove it, then hold it closed while she tries to get in?
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