Breaking Bad: Let's discuss early season Skyler (spoilers)

I'm doing a rewatch so I'm in full on BB mode. I know it is a universal opinion that skyler sucks and is awful and a megabitch. And I mean I'm not really going to argue against that. I know the flip side of that is "well look at what walt put her through, he's a meth dealer of course she's gonna act crazy". Also valid. But in doing my rewatch (I'm currently a few episodes into season 2, so very early still) I can absolutely see her side of the story. Let's break it down:

-Walt works long hours at a car wash and often stays late. Nothing wrong with this, but it can be tough on a pregnant spouse. Speaking of, they're both aging and didn't plan on this new one so emotions are already on edge from the outset.
-Skyler realizes walt is somehow, someway involved with a druggie loser although she doesn't know how. She (reasonably, in this scenario) assumes he sells walt pot. For a guy that has never touched a drug, I can see how this would be alarming.
-Walt is extremely devious. He is out late, and upon telling her another lie about why he is coming home late from working, she tells him she knows he was fired 2 weeks ago. At this point, skyler knows that walt is not working but is out late and not being forthright, and is also involved with a drug dealer. She has every right to be upset.
-When walt finally comes clean and tells her about the cancer (yet another reason for her to rightfully be upset...hiding this massive secret from her for weeks) she is supportive and finds great medical care. Problem is that walt now has to empty his pension (to her knowledge of course) to pay for it, leaving them basically dead broke.
-grey matter offers him a position. He would actually get to put his smarts to work and make a bundle to boot. He turns it down.
-They go one step further; gretchen and elliot offer to simply pay for the treatment. What a miracle! Walt turns it down.
-they have a baby shower where she gets the jewelry from marie. She isn't happy with it so returns it to the store where she is held by authorities for theft bc of her bitch sister's actions.
-walt continues to be aloof and nearly rapes skyler in the kitchen before she has to make him stop
-after tuco kidnaps walt and jesse, he is missing and nobody knows where he is. It's around 2 days or so and they have literally no clue where he is, he simply vanished without a word
-hank tells skyler that the phone company looked at the records and walt did not receive a phone call when skyler knew he did, thereby informing her he has a 2nd cell phone



Now, I realize that later on she does ramp up the bitchiness and I want to say that I am 100%, no exceptions, vehemently opposed to cheating. Her fricking ted is more unforgivable to me than walt cooking. But we aren't there yet in the story. At THIS point, early on in season 2, I'm going to defend skyler and say she is absolutley well within reason to act the way she does. Can you really blame her?