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My boss and Penn State
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:53 pm
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:53 pm
As I've stated on this board before, my boss is a Penn State alum and her parents are very close to all of the people involved--her dad was on the board of the 2nd Mile, big donors, know the Sandusky's, Paterno's, etc.
She's obviously been very upset, not wanting to talk about it, etc, BUT then came this...
During our weekly one-on-one discussion, she went into a Rant about how the media is to blame for Paterno's firing because they sensationalized his role in the scandal.
She even went so far as to be upset at the media's assertion that more sexual abuse claims were sure to follow, now that Sandusky's abuse had been publicized. Pointed out that even though the grand jury report had 8 victims, only 2 had eyewitness reports, etc. (at one point I said, "well, let's be clear, ONE victim is too many")
I sat there mostly in silence as she went on for about 5 minutes with this and her pride in Penn State, it's all the media's fault, JoePa is the greatest man since the other one hung on the cross, etc
Isn't she part of the problem? Thinking that these people aren't accountable? What do you think of her claim that the media is to blame for Paterno's firing?
I'll hang up and listen...
She's obviously been very upset, not wanting to talk about it, etc, BUT then came this...
During our weekly one-on-one discussion, she went into a Rant about how the media is to blame for Paterno's firing because they sensationalized his role in the scandal.
She even went so far as to be upset at the media's assertion that more sexual abuse claims were sure to follow, now that Sandusky's abuse had been publicized. Pointed out that even though the grand jury report had 8 victims, only 2 had eyewitness reports, etc. (at one point I said, "well, let's be clear, ONE victim is too many")
I sat there mostly in silence as she went on for about 5 minutes with this and her pride in Penn State, it's all the media's fault, JoePa is the greatest man since the other one hung on the cross, etc
Isn't she part of the problem? Thinking that these people aren't accountable? What do you think of her claim that the media is to blame for Paterno's firing?
I'll hang up and listen...
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:55 pm to SanFranTiger
your friend is an idiot.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:55 pm to SanFranTiger
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my boss
quote:first mistake
her
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:55 pm to SanFranTiger
People are delusional about things they love. Its easy to blame other things/people really hard to blame something or someone you love
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:57 pm to SanFranTiger
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Isn't she part of the problem? Thinking that these people aren't accountable? What do you think of her claim that the media is to blame for Paterno's firing?
yes. penn state is a cult.
most folks in the northeast already knew this. everyone else is now finding out.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:57 pm to SanFranTiger
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Isn't she part of the problem?
Yes.
I work with a guy who is a Penn State Alum. His son is graduating from Penn State this spring.
He blames the culture, the people involved, etc. He wants it cleaned up, not covered up. He's saddened that Paterno's reputation is tarnished, but he also understands that Paterno should have done more, and that it's JoePa's own fault that his reputation is tarnished.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:57 pm to wish i was tebow
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quote:
my boss
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her
first mistake
ha. Women don't bother me. Sorry I couldn't make it part of my job acceptance "If I take this job, YOU will for ME." LOL
Posted on 12/2/11 at 12:58 pm to SanFranTiger
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ha. Women don't bother me
Which makes you a secure and mature individual.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:00 pm to SanFranTiger
The media undoubtedly played a huge role in Joe Pa. being fired. I think that's indisputable.
I think people loyal to Penn State have a hard time knowing all Paterno has done that is good and then putting it together with this. I'm not saying he shouldn't be culpable, but it's tough to put the things together.
I think people loyal to Penn State have a hard time knowing all Paterno has done that is good and then putting it together with this. I'm not saying he shouldn't be culpable, but it's tough to put the things together.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:02 pm to SanFranTiger
What do you want validation for your story.
Of course, alums and people connected are going to defend PSU...it's personal. Hell, family members defend and make excuses for criminals and sexual abusers/predators in their own family most of the time. Sandusky's wife/Bernie Fine's wife are just public examples of people who stand by and do nothing.
I don't understand this public need for everyone in the world to feel the same about this story. PSU people are allowed to go through the stages of grief.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:04 pm to OBUDan
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The media undoubtedly played a huge role in Joe Pa. being fired. I think that's indisputable.
Do you think that's a bad thing?
My boss thinks he should have been put on paid administrative leave, then resign. Would that have been markedly different?
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:05 pm to SanFranTiger
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I don't understand this public need for everyone in the world to feel the same about this story. PSU people are allowed to go through the stages of grief.
Wasn't looking for validation or anything, just some good discussion, particularly since she is so close to the situation.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:05 pm to SanFranTiger
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Isn't she part of the problem?
yes, and she's too close to the problem to be an impartial observer
as any impartial observer would tell you, JoePa had to GTFO right away after all this broke
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:16 pm to SanFranTiger
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particularly since she is so close to the situation.
She should sign up on here...
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:18 pm to SanFranTiger
quote:Yes. Tell her that
Isn't she part of the problem?
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:21 pm to SanFranTiger
Jim jones routinely ran suicide drills with his followers and few questioned it. So when it came time for the real thing, few questioned him.
WE ARE PENN STATE
WE ARE PENN STATE
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:38 pm to SanFranTiger
she is stuck in the denial part of the grief process
she loves her alma mater - it is making her unable to reason normally
you did the right thing in remaining quiet, let people who she can't fire point it out when she is being stupid about the subject
she loves her alma mater - it is making her unable to reason normally
you did the right thing in remaining quiet, let people who she can't fire point it out when she is being stupid about the subject
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:43 pm to SanFranTiger
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:44 pm to SanFranTiger
Tell her to go frick herself.
Posted on 12/2/11 at 1:50 pm to SanFranTiger
it's a natural reaction to defend what you are emotionally attached to. plus she's a woman, so thinking logically is near impossible for her anyway.
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