I don't know what made you go to the military, but you should never make a big life changing decision because "it's the right thing to do". You should only do it if it is something that you truly want to do.
The only time you should do something because it's the right thing to do, is if you are backed into a corner.
Case in point a marriage commitment. If you are cheated on and want to get out of your marriage is that wrong? Is it wrong to want to escape if you are getting abused? What about the children, don't want to leave them without a father cause that would be worse than getting daily beatings. I wonder if women in abusive relationships think like you do because staying with these psychos now make perfect sense after hearing your righteous rambling.
This post was edited on 5/22 at 12:08 am