If you do a quick google search you can find someone who has uploaded the best rosters. I'm not sure who has the best ones out at this time but I'm sure someone on the board can help you out. My opinion go with madden.
I know I asked "why" earlier in the thread but Madden has always and will always be better than NCAA, BUT I can't recruit when I play Madden nor can I play Road to Glory. As far as gameplay and such, no game is perfect. There's always going to be something to do with the game that's going to piss you off.