I've seen your pics of you being there
My bike club had a big party there after one of our Thursday night rides. I didn't go because it started at 10 pm...which wouldn't have sat well with my work morning starting at 7 am the next day.
As far as it being trashy, I don't think it's trashy, but then again, I'm fine with all walks of life whether it be at Indulge, Country Club, etc. If it's clean and people are having a great time, and no one is treating me bad, then it's all good.
If she's never been there and she's saying she doesn't want to go because it's trashy, is it possible she might feel threatened around other women in bikinis? I dunno.
This post was edited on 6/27 at 2:17 pm