The man cooks as often as I do and he never noticed that in 30 years!!!
Hey, I've been married to Lucy for 17 years. Last year I asked her to unload the dishwasher while I was mowing the grass. She had never unloaded the dishwasher. When I came in I had to replace everything that she put in the wrong cabinets.
To this day she doesn't even put dishes in the dishwasher because she has no idea how to do it. She puts them in the sink for me.