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TexasTiger05 
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:25 pm to WikiTiger)
I started to write out this long thing but realized I was assuming a lot about your position and figured you'd blast through it anyway, so frick it.
And the uway's post- it reminded me of a pre marriage counseling session. I've heard that idea before. If it works for people- right on
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WikiTiger
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:27 pm to uway)
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Eh. I guess that's why I attempted to stop in the first place, but religion had never stopped me before.
Either way, the effect on my entire life, including my sex life, is irrefutable evidence to me that its a better way.
Once you truly stop, you won't miss it at all.
you should start a No Fap thread on the OT one day. leave the religion stuff out and just talk about the noticeable benefits you've gained and see how the thread takes off
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KT70
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:28 pm to WikiTiger)
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you should start a No Fap thread on the OT one day. leave the religion stuff out and just talk about the noticeable benefits you've gained and see how the thread takes off
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WikiTiger
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:28 pm to TexasTiger05)
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I started to write out this long thing but realized I was assuming a lot about your position and figured you'd blast through it anyway, so frick it.
awwwwwwww come on, if anything, it'll be fun discussion
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TexasTiger05
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:30 pm to WikiTiger)
Well, it was more I didn't want to offend by assuming too much.
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lurkr
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:32 pm to CoCo311)
This is a correct statement coco, if my SO and I would get divorced it would not be because of the sex.
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buddhavista
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:32 pm to BTHog)
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you ever stop to consider that her interest may have wanted because the way you treat her has changed ?
I GUARANTEE you that is the reason. Anything else is just men making up excuses to avoid their own fault.
read the rest of my posts. I didn't really have this problem but many of my friends did.
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yea, that made me laugh too.
but in his defense, there is a group of people who advocate for that as well, from a totally non-religious persepctive, too.
there is a subreddit called something like "NoFap" and they discuss how much better it has made their sex life, and/or how it has motivated them to actually get out and find a girlfriend instead of just sitting around content to jerk off to porn, etc.
I only fap when i travel for work, or the wife is out of town or I can't sleep. I started doing this about 8 months ago, I think our sex life is better for it.
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uway 
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:33 pm to WikiTiger)
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you should start a No Fap thread on the OT one day. leave the religion stuff out and just talk about the noticeable benefits you've gained and see how the thread takes off
It's pretty much all I post about already. Just in case I'm not unpopular enough.
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uway
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:35 pm to buddhavista)
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I only fap when i travel for work, or the wife is out of town or I can't sleep. I started doing this about 8 months ago, I think our sex life is better for it.
The first time I realized I could truly stop was when I abstained on a solo trip. True test, that.
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SpicyStacy 
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:36 pm to JJ27)
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Wash the dishes, fold some clothes, get more pussy.
this x 1000
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WikiTiger
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:36 pm to TexasTiger05)
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Well, it was more I didn't want to offend by assuming too much.
i don't get offended very easily. but if you don't want to discuss it, that's fine too. i won't push you
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Topwater Trout
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:40 pm to uway)
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uway
You don't fap?
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holy shinto
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:44 pm to buddhavista)
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write her love poems
"What is love? What is this longing in our hearts for togetherness? Is it not the sweetest flower? Does not this flower of love have the fragrant aroma of fine, fine diamonds? Does not the wind love the dirt? Is not love not unlike the unlikely not it is unlikened to? Are you with someone tonight? Do not question your love. Take your lover by the hand. Release the power within yourself. Your heard me, release the power. Tame the wild cosmos with a whisper. Conquer heaven with one intimate caress. That's right don't be shy. Whip out everything you got and do it in the butt. "
-By Leon Phelps
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KT70
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:47 pm to holy shinto)
I knew it couldn't last forever...
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uway
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:48 pm to Topwater Trout)
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You don't fap?
Not anymore.
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Topwater Trout
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:52 pm to uway)
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Not anymore.
How do you relieve stress?
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WNCTiger
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:52 pm to snow517)
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After 12.5 years of marriage, I find that showing interest in what she is talking about helps a lot. I can go all day without talking, so I have to make a conscience effort to do so.
^^^^^
This is actually a great response.
The caveat is:
When she puts out more, I'm more interested in what she is talking about.
Married Man Sex Life is good. A lot of what he suggests worked for me.
Be the Alpha. Lift some weights. Be mysterious. Up your sex rank. Let her see other attractive women (or at least women >= to her sex rank) show interest in you. Tell her you want to frick her brains out or that sentiment in more civilized words.
They all want to be with the best guy they can get. Make yourself into that guy and if it doesn't work with her it will damn sure work with another.
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Mo Jeaux
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 2:55 pm to WNCTiger)
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The caveat is:
When she puts out more, I'm more interested in what she is talking about.
This. These discussions are always couched in terms of what the men can do. But goddamnit, marriage is a two way street, and women have obligations to the marriage too.
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KT70
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 3:00 pm to Mo Jeaux)
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This. These discussions are always couched in terms of what the men can do. But goddamnit, marriage is a two way street, and women have obligations to the marriage too.
True, but I think since most of the people on this thread are men they are looking at it from that view. I know I am but you right it takes two for sure..
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6nmylifetime 
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| re: How to increase frequency of sex for married couples thread (Posted on 12/11/12 at 3:00 pm to snow517)
Not gonna read 8 pages of this so if it's been stated already sorry. I've noticed that most have approached the subject as if it's the mans fault he's not getting any. I did read one that said "Don't marry a cold bitch". Well if that is the case what is the answer (without caving in on your principles and pride or buying the sex with favors and chores)in the OT's infinite wisdom?
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