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Jahel
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Yea, typical OT. Everyone is the exception.


I wouldn't say that it means that men aren't still attracted to other women, a hot little 18 y/o, it's just that they aren't repulsed by their wives like you think occurs.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder(cliche), but like an old favorite jacket, my mama's biscuits & gravy, Abbot & Costello reruns, Led Zeppelin, etc....I love what I love, and don't care about some hawt new trend that won't be able to stand the test of time.

I got depressed when they unveiled toonces....I like the old better









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WikiTiger
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they aren't repulsed by their wives like you think occurs.


pretty sure I never said that. but if your argument requires putting words in my mouth, then by all means press on







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TexasTiger05
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Just reading what wiki posted, I just took it as men get tired of sleeping with the same woman. Not saying then they'll go step out on her or anything. But I can see that inevitably happening. Same for women. That's why you need to keep it different, keep it spicy.





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CoCo311
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That's why you need to keep it different, keep it spicy.


I agree.






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TexasTiger05
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with #2 on the way, that's going to be tough. I've always liked spontaneity, but I can see with 2 kids it'll be like "he's watching Toy Story, she's napping- we have 10 minutes, Go!"





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uway
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1. Don't discuss your sex life with anyone other than your spouse.
- that seems like I'm trolling, but taking it outside of your marriage is a bad idea. For one thing, it doesn't matter what other people think or what they claim their sex life is like. For another, it speaks to and exacerbates a lack of intimacy within the relationship.

2. Think of your spouse's sexuality as a gift. Only a child expects and demands gifts. Adults give gifts out of the goodness of their hearts, receive them with humility, and treat them with respect.
We give ourselves in marriage, but that's not the end of it. Strive to be worthy of your spouse's gift. If its not given, be worthy anyway.


Also, stop masturbating.






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CoCo311
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Not all people who get divorced do so because of sex. Hell, not all people who cheat do so for the sex. I'd date to say that's mostly the case with women. I think most women cheat because they are missing an emotional connection. Hell, I love sex as much or more than most men, but I dont NEED to have sex like I think men do. I do NEED a companion though.





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Jahel
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Just reading what wiki posted, I just took it as men get tired of sleeping with the same woman.


do they get tired of:

1. drinking the same beer
2. rooting for the same team
3. sitting in their favorite chair
4-100. any host of routines that men love to do and get cranky when their wife tries to change their routine?






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CoCo311
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with #2 on the way, that's going to be tough. I've always liked spontaneity, but I can see with 2 kids it'll be like "he's watching Toy Story, she's napping- we have 10 minutes, Go!"


Lol, that's EXACTLY how it is! Put on Mickey Mouse, give them a snack, close the baby gate and get what needs to be got!!!






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TexasTiger05
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Reminds me of that scene in Family Man when the wife comes in announcing the kids are asleep





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Pilot Tiger
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yes absolutely





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Pilot Tiger
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2. Think of your spouse's sexuality as a gift. Only a child expects and demands gifts. Adults give gifts out of the goodness of their hearts, receive them with humility, and treat them with respect.
We give ourselves in marriage, but that's not the end of it. Strive to be worthy of your spouse's gift. If its not given, be worthy anyway.


Also, stop masturbating.
im sorry





















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WikiTiger
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Also, stop masturbating.


im sorry














yea, that made me laugh too.

but in his defense, there is a group of people who advocate for that as well, from a totally non-religious persepctive, too.

there is a subreddit called something like "NoFap" and they discuss how much better it has made their sex life, and/or how it has motivated them to actually get out and find a girlfriend instead of just sitting around content to jerk off to porn, etc.


i'm sure uway is coming at it from a religious standpoint, but he still may have a point



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uway
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im sorry


That's a good first step.






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KT70
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This has to be the longest thread ever on the OT with actual good advice!





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LSU lilly
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I read somewhere that you should plan intimacy. Even if you have to put it on a calendar. Doing it at a specific time for a few days in a row will eventually lead to doing it more naturally.





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Topwater Trout
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My husband has worked out-of-town during the week for 3/4 of our marriage. I don't know how long you've been married, but it does tend to get old.


And this is why you have a silver bullet in the nightstand drawer






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CoCo311
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I read somewhere that you should plan intimacy. Even if you have to put it on a calendar. Doing it at a specific time for a few days in a row will eventually lead to doing it more naturally.


Lies.






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uway
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i'm sure uway is coming at it from a religious standpoint, but he still make have a point


Eh. I guess that's why I attempted to stop in the first place, but religion had never stopped me before.
Either way, the effect on my entire life, including my sex life, is irrefutable evidence to me that its a better way.
Once you truly stop, you won't miss it at all.







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lurkr
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Everything you said in those 3 paragraffs and a mouth full of each others junk once a week never hurts.

I find it easy to keep my SO in the mood. Anytime I pass her in the house it's a kiss on the cheek, a soft grab of the hiney, an inconspicuous rub of the boobage, grab her on both sides of her waist from behind and pull her into you softly but with a purpose, not a bad time to bite on some neck about that time.

You get back what you put in, they are a creature that needs to be reminded, constantly.






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