No, I agree with you. I was just arguing the definition of the word "pedophile". It's a very misused word, especially in these cases. It should be reserved for the REAL sick fricks who go after 4 year olds.
I see what you're saying here and that is a good point. I just see these threads and see the reaction that they get and want people to know that just because the adult in these situations are women and the children are boys, it does not lessen the damage done to the child from the abuse. And yes, it's abuse. what makes it so bad for boys in this type of abuse situation is there is a prevailing view by society that not only were they not abused but were actually lucky for what was done to them. It's fricking sick and people who think that are simply wrong.
These boys are borderline in that they are 15 yrs old. Hopefully they've matured enough that this will not leave them damaged like this sort of thing usually does.