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LNCHBOX  LSU Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Jun 2009 6768 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 8:34 pm to Draconian Sanctions)
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people should tip for the regular price, not the discounted price. Auto-grat is the right call.
I'm sorry but get the frick out with this entitled bull shite attitude. The bitch should not have auto grat'ed herself 40% of a bill. There is no such thing as a guaranteed tip. You don't like it, get a job that pays a normal wage. Jesus what a fricking stupid attitude you have. Where are you a server at?
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LouisianaLady  USA Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Mar 2009 46894 posts
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| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 8:35 pm to LNCHBOX)
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You don't like it, get a job that pays a normal wage.
COP OUT. FWIW, I don't think you should have to tip on the full price of a happy hour special or whatever. But that statement you just made is a cop out and I hate it. Being a server isn't any less of a job than anything else and if everyone got a "normal" job, you'd be making your own food every night.
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LNCHBOX  LSU Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Jun 2009 6768 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 8:39 pm to LouisianaLady)
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COP OUT.
No it's not when dealing with an attitude such as Drac's. There is no situation where automatically adding 40% as a tip to a check can be condoned, but that's basically what he said.
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But that statement you just made is a cop out and I hate it. Being a server isn't any less of a job than anything else and if everyone got a "normal" job, you'd be making your own food every nigh
This is just as big of a cop out as anything I said. And all this bitch did was bring me the drink. She didn't make them, so why should she get 40%?
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jmarto1  LSU Fan Houma, LA Member since Mar 2008 10047 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 8:48 pm to LNCHBOX)
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And all this bitch did was bring me the drink. She didn't make them, so why should she get 40%?
She tips out the person who did make it. That being said, 40% gratuity is out of line. I am sure that they do not have that posted anywhere.
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glassman  USA Fan The Golden Rectangle Member since Oct 2008 83403 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 8:52 pm to LNCHBOX)
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And all this bitch did was bring me the drink. She didn't make them, so why should she get 40%?
Tabs at bars are always a bad idea. I pay cash per drink and tip per round. Take today for example. Got to Finn's a little late at 7:00am. Had 8 Brooklyn Brown Ale pints at 4.25 per pint. I tipped a total of 15.00. I always get great service and know the bartender.
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NawlinsTiger9  New Orleans Saints Fan Where the mongooses roam Member since Jan 2009 6871 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:18 pm to LSUgirl4)
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the main reason i tip so much is because if i find a place i really like or a server i really like... i become a regular. i enjoy being taken care of as a patron. so i will always take care of my server... because a. it's the right thing to do and b. i know the service i receive will be top notch.
ding ding ding
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NawlinsTiger9  New Orleans Saints Fan Where the mongooses roam Member since Jan 2009 6871 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:20 pm to LNCHBOX)
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And all this bitch did was bring me the drink
Holy frick.
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LouisianaLady  USA Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Mar 2009 46894 posts
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| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:27 pm to LNCHBOX)
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This is just as big of a cop out as anything I said
What is? Calling you out for being an elitist is a cop out? No. The proof is in your writing. MOST everyone in the thread agreed she shouldn't have done what she did to you. That is not the argument. The reason this thread is still going and the reason you sound disgusting to me is because you're mixing statements like this:
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all this bitch did was bring me the drink.
.. into an otherwise logical argument that you have. It's like you can't decide which side you're on. "Well, I'm a good tipper but that being said, those lazy piece of shite whores don't deserve it!!!11" You're making the fact that you might, in fact, be a nice customer and good tipper completely unbelievable. Shame, since I think what happened to you was messed up.
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Siderophore  LSU Fan Member since Nov 2010 3334 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:27 pm to LNCHBOX)
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Why else would she do it then scowl at us when we called her out?
There are frick tons of possible reasons. Some of which you won't guess because you don't know their perspective. The first one is simply the fact that you intended to tip less than 40% thus "costing" her money on the special. If you didn't mind tipping the 40%, you wouldnt have asked it to be removed and just not tipped any more on top of it.
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Don't be stupid.
Exactly my point. Don't be stupid. Think about that shite before throwing out an accusation. Just because it's the first thing that comes to mind doesn't mean that it's the ONLY possible explaination. Sure, she might have been hoping that. But that "scowl" could have just as easily had other meanings....
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Siderophore  LSU Fan Member since Nov 2010 3334 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:30 pm to LNCHBOX)
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She didn't make them, so why should she get 40%?
Annnnd again with the assumptions. How do you know if those tips goes directly and solely to her, and isn't part of a tip sharing policy the resturant has among all of the service members.
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LouisianaLady  USA Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Mar 2009 46894 posts
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| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:32 pm to Siderophore)
I was reading something the other day about the service industry and someone said they went to a restaurant and had a girl that really just acted like she didn't want to be there. She had a slight attitude and while she did everything correctly, she wasn't excited about it at all. He said that they could have easily left a shitty tip, but instead they gave her a very large tip and wrote a note on the receipt that said, "Sorry you're having such a bad day. Hope everything gets better". He said he stuck around and saw her read the receipt, which made her sit in a booth and start crying with gratitude. I'm not by any means saying we should just tip people with poor attitudes.. but I thought it was nice that this guy took the time to think about the fact that she's a person that could be going through anything. You never know what a person is going though.
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IonaTiger  Iona Fan The Commonwealth Of Virginia Member since Mar 2006 21577 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:35 pm to LouisianaLady)
I may be a shallow person, because I judge people by the way they treat waiters/waitresses and other service people.
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TheBiggestSpur  South Carolina Fan Member since Oct 2012 1049 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:39 pm to LouisianaLady)
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But that statement you just made is a cop out and I hate it. Being a server isn't any less of a job than anything else and if everyone got a "normal" job, you'd be making your own food every night.
When they took the job, they knew they were taking the risk of not having a guaranteed income. When I got into sales after college where I was commission, I knew the risk as well. To me, the price of the food includes making it and bringing it to me. Do I tip? Sure, when I feel the service was worth it. Do I feel obligated to do it? frick no. If the server doesn't like it, then tough shite.
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LouisianaLady  USA Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Mar 2009 46894 posts
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| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:44 pm to TheBiggestSpur)
A lot of women would never go on another date with someone who doesn't tip. Hope you have a cheapo woman already.
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LouisianaLady  USA Fan Baton Rouge, LA Member since Mar 2009 46894 posts
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| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:46 pm to IonaTiger)
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Posted by IonaTiger I may be a shallow person, because I judge people by the way they treat waiters/waitresses and other service people.
Me too. 100%. You're rude to service people, I'm rude to you. I'd kick someone in the balls over it. And I've never kicked anyone there lol
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glassman  USA Fan The Golden Rectangle Member since Oct 2008 83403 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:53 pm to IonaTiger)
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I may be a shallow person, because I judge people by the way they treat waiters/waitresses and other service people.
Where you live there are people called professional waiters, same as where I live. They make a helluva a living because they are great at their jobs. Just like a doctor, attorney or salesman.
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TheBiggestSpur  South Carolina Fan Member since Oct 2012 1049 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:54 pm to LouisianaLady)
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A lot of women would never go on another date with someone who doesn't tip. Hope you have a cheapo woman already.
No restaurant can cook as well as I cook Besides if a woman wants to see me give a tip, she can wait til later that night 
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NawlinsTiger9  New Orleans Saints Fan Where the mongooses roam Member since Jan 2009 6871 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:54 pm to LouisianaLady)
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TheBiggestSpur  South Carolina Fan Member since Oct 2012 1049 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 9:55 pm to IonaTiger)
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I may be a shallow person, because I judge people by the way they treat waiters/waitresses and other service people.
I'm nice to them just like I am to any other working stiff out there, I just don't feel obligated to give them a tip.
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IonaTiger  Iona Fan The Commonwealth Of Virginia Member since Mar 2006 21577 posts

| re: Watch out for waitresses adding auto gratuity if you've been drinking... (Posted on 11/17/12 at 10:02 pm to TheBiggestSpur)
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I just don't feel obligated to give them a tip.
Mr. Pink, is that you?
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