No problem and glad I didn't offend you. I that you'd be surprised that his screenname does come up a bit but moreso on the OT. (if you haven't been there much DON'T DO IT!)
Glad that they're well ... I just remember he was so proud of his dtr and son and the choices/decisions that they'd made at least up until that point.
And awesome that you were in the band ... had to be a cool time for you.