Am I like the only person on earth who thinks dinner is too much for a first date?? Whatever happened to coffee or a couple of drinks?
No, you're not the only one! I am right there with you! I have a "5 minute rule." I know within 5 minutes of being around a guy if there's chemistry and if I want to spend more time with him. There's no sense in a guy buying me dinner and then me feeling guilty about it knowing that I'm never going to go out with him again. I'd rather meet for a couple of drinks and then if we hit it off, then maybe extending the date to grab some food.
And I've said it before on this board...I would actually be completely turned off by a guy wanting to bring me to a place like August or Stella on a first date. I would think it's over the top, pretentious and that they were trying to hard.
This post was edited on 10/2 at 2:04 pm