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re: Relationship Advice. Girl problems brah.

Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:56 pm to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:56 pm to
Yeah I just agreed with HC.


Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65394 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:58 pm to
This board is experiencing major slippage:

Over two complete pages without:

PIIHB.

Mercy.

PS: it's "ragrets" not regrets.
This post was edited on 9/2/14 at 12:00 am
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:58 pm to
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The problem is she has a problem trusting me. I did some things when we first started dating that I regret.


You did some things that gave her an excuse to manipulate the shyt out of you for years to come (in her mind). I'd tell her it's just not working out if she can't get over it.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
67929 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:58 pm to
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I'm honestly thinking about going through couples counseling to get us over this hump.


If you're at a point where you need counseling and aren't even married, give it up. Seriously, you both need to move on. But, I know you won't because you "love her dearly" and are blinded to the coming mistake that will screw up the next 10 years of your life.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63121 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:04 am to
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I've never cheated in any of my relationships, but there is absolutely no way I would ever do any of that.


So you just destroyed the trust of a multi-year relationship headed for marriage and your response is simply, "My bad"?

Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71273 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:06 am to
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So you just destroyed the trust of a multi-year relationship headed for marriage and your response is simply, "My bad"?



I wouldn't destroy it in the first place, and if for some odd reason I did, I'd probably just end the relationship.

If someone cheated on me, I'd dump their arse.
Posted by 7thWardTiger
Richmond, Texas
Member since Nov 2009
24670 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:09 am to
She's cheating brah.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83919 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:10 am to
My boy knows what's up.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63121 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:13 am to
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I wouldn't destroy it in the first place, and if for some odd reason I did, I'd probably just end the relationship.


People make immature mistakes. No reason not to try to salvage a relationship if both parties are willing. Doesn't necessarily have to be cheating to be a trust issue.
Posted by 7thWardTiger
Richmond, Texas
Member since Nov 2009
24670 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:15 am to
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My boy knows what's up.
yuuuuup. Her bringing up old shite is her way of justifying her indiscretions. Been there, done that. If OP's not an idiot, he's noticed her change in behavior lately. If not, start looking for things like her keeping her phone on do not disturb when she's around you, or keeping it on vibrate with the notifications turned off and screen as dim as possible. The warning signs are there. You just have to know where to look
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
71273 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:17 am to
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yuuuuup. Her bringing up old shite is her way of justifying her indiscretions. Been there, done that. If OP's not an idiot, he's noticed her change in behavior lately. If not, start looking for things like her keeping her phone on do not disturb when she's around you, or keeping it on vibrate with the notifications turned off and screen as dim as possible. The warning signs are there. You just have to know where to look



Jeez, you got this shite down.

I must look like a cheating mofo, but I'm deaf as hell and hate wasting batteries so I keep it on vibrate with a low screen level.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83919 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:17 am to
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yuuuuup. Her bringing up old shite is her way of justifying her indiscretions.


Exactly.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
123979 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:28 am to
The sole reason why I'm single. They just can't trust me
Posted by Blitzed
Member since Oct 2009
21283 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:37 am to
Allow her to mark her territory by shitting on your face. It will keep all the other bitches away and she will have nothing to worry about.
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:41 am to
You need to become more calloused like Mud and not care so much. If you marry her then you'll be up shite creek. 3 years aint nothing compared to 50. Don't be stupid. I dated my wife for 5 years before we got married. This isn't a game.

Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 12:48 am to
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Be an open book. Share an email account, Facebook, whatever. Give her complete access to your cell phone, computer, etc. Don't do anything that would even so much as suggest an indescretion your part.
Consider initiating counseling (singles or couples depending on the issue) to show your seriousness. Eventually she'll get over it or she won't.

Advice from my own past.



what a way to live.
Posted by xXLSUXx
New Orleans, LA
Member since Oct 2010
10304 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 6:33 am to
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literally give her the world



Holy shite. Can you tell her to please get to work? It'd be nice if she could resolve the Ukraine and ISIS conflicts. As well as find that missing Malaysian plane.

Thanks.
Posted by snake23
NOLA/BR
Member since Dec 2011
4438 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 6:35 am to
Just convince her that she's the one who can't be trusted. Women are stupid, baw
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56076 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 6:58 am to
You will have a miserable life if you marry this girl.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17432 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 7:00 am to
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but lately she has had some problems trusting me.


Classic signs that there is someone else. Sorry man.
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