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re: Marrying a woman who has cheated before

Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:12 pm to
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:12 pm to
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Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:13 pm to
Great idea. Start saving for alimony and child support now.
Posted by DollaChoppa
I Simp for ACC
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:14 pm to
Everyone cheats
Posted by Count Chocula
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:15 pm to
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I'm here for you.


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Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47456 posts
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:16 pm to
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H O L Y F U C K




I'm genuinely . Was hoping someone would catch that.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38422 posts
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:19 pm to
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mikelbr


Dude my only regret was not divorcing sooner. I'm basically dating Zoe Saldana right now. Not quite as wealthy but man WTF was I waiting for!
Posted by Phil A Sheo
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:20 pm to
Are you the poor sucker stuck with my x wife???
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:21 pm to
fricking animal.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90409 posts
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:24 pm to
Boyfriend in college? Don't care

Husband or serious long term boyfriend? Then yea I wouldn't marry her
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:25 pm to
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I like all the people in these threads trying to rationalize cheating due to bad relationships. Just admit that you're a shitty person and deal with it on your own. Relationships are at-will deals... If it's that bad, get out of it before finding someone new. I've never understood what's so hard to comprehend about that.

Cheating on puppy love significant others in college is not indicative of some massive character flaw. It's college; shite happens, and then after it happens nobody normal gives a frick about these transgressions.
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16535 posts
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:25 pm to
It depends on why the cheating happened in a way but overall it's still a major red flag.

2 things really. They guy was just bad, but this raises the question of why not just get out of the relationship instead of resulting to cheating? Or she just wasn't happy anymore and didn't feel like the guy was still attracted to her etc etc, and this is the larger red flag of the two.

Not all, but many women just can't be happy with themselves which leads to messing up a lot of good guys along the way.
Posted by RDOtiger
Zachary
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 2:32 pm to
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I like all the people in these threads trying to rationalize cheating due to bad relationships. Just admit that you're a shitty person and deal with it on your own. Relationships are at-will deals... If it's that bad, get out of it before finding someone new. I've never understood what's so hard to
comprehend about that.


So, obviously, these individual's character flaw is an inability to remain committed in serious relationships. What's your character flaw? Please, don't tell me you are flawless. I'm not defending cheating; however, character is developed, not something you're born with - therefore, some people are able to reframe from making poor decisions repetitively. To assert that millions of people who have made the same mistake are all destined to make the same mistake again is shallow and ignorant, at best...
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 8/27/14 at 2:49 pm to
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What's your character flaw? Please, don't tell me you are flawless.


I didn't say I was flawless. Matter fact, I said the opposite. If you are flawed, own that shite and move on. Don't try to justify it. Admit that you did something shitty and wrong.

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I'm not defending cheating


Actually, you just tried.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
66975 posts
Posted on 8/27/14 at 2:50 pm to
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Could you marry a woman who cheated on her husband or boyfriend before?


Probably not in most scenarios.
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What if you were the person she was cheating with?


This is one of the few scenarios where it might be overlooked, but it shouldn't be. If a woman will cheat with you, she will cheat on you.
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