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Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:40 am to TheCaterpillar
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I cheated on a girlfriend in college a couple times and it didn't phase me. Turns out she cheated on me too.
Girlfriend/boyfriend doesn't count.
And engaged ain't married.
Married is a whole other pickle.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:40 am to Beau Tie
Generally no, but it depends on the cheating.
I've known folks who've cheated their way into a new relationship, over a long period of time, and married the new person. Of course it involved a break up at some point, but there was likely cheating before that point to some extent. Plus they weren't married, which makes a difference to some.
I think that's a bad way to do it, but I think it is less indicative of a proclivity to cheat in the future in some cases.
I've known folks who've cheated their way into a new relationship, over a long period of time, and married the new person. Of course it involved a break up at some point, but there was likely cheating before that point to some extent. Plus they weren't married, which makes a difference to some.
I think that's a bad way to do it, but I think it is less indicative of a proclivity to cheat in the future in some cases.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:40 am to Beau Tie
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What if she only cheated because she caught her husband cheating? Does that change your view?
No because then I know she's an idiot. She should gather evidence, file for divorce, take all his shite, then look for strange dick.
If she goes out and cheats too, it isn't going to help her in divorce proceedings.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:40 am to fr33manator
Okay, how do you know me and who do you think I am without saying my name?
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:41 am to meauxjeaux2
SHAQ!!!!!!111
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:41 am to Beau Tie
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What if she only cheated because she caught her husband cheating? Does that change your view?
Or what if the husband gets addicted to painkillers and starts shooting up the kids' tuition and their life savings? Is verbally and/or physically abusive?shite isn't always black and white. Cheating sucks, but we're human. We all have our breaking points.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:41 am to meauxjeaux2
Magic Johnson or Shaq
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:41 am to Beau Tie
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Could you marry a woman who cheated on her husband or boyfriend before?
My response depends on what she looks like, so, you know the drill dammit!
PICS!
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What if you were the person she was cheating with?
So, since you are obviously that person, we know you have pics!
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:41 am to Beau Tie
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What if she only cheated because she caught her husband cheating? Does that change your view?
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:41 am to Beau Tie
In my experience, most women want/need to be in a relationship or they think/feel something is wrong.
Furthermore, from my observations, most women start looking for a new SO/BF long before they end the relationship.
To me, that is the same as cheating. Even if you do not actually have sex, if you are actively pursuing others or allowing them to pursue you when you are in a relationship, you are cheating and the cheating just gets consummated shortly after the breakup so the person can feel better about themselves (by telling themselves they aren't a "cheater").
But there really isn't a difference. Say person A has been flirting with person C while in a relationship with person B. Then A ends it with B and gets with C a day, week, or month later. Person A was/is a cheater. Like a monkey that doesn't let go of one vine until they have another to latch onto in sight.
Furthermore, from my observations, most women start looking for a new SO/BF long before they end the relationship.
To me, that is the same as cheating. Even if you do not actually have sex, if you are actively pursuing others or allowing them to pursue you when you are in a relationship, you are cheating and the cheating just gets consummated shortly after the breakup so the person can feel better about themselves (by telling themselves they aren't a "cheater").
But there really isn't a difference. Say person A has been flirting with person C while in a relationship with person B. Then A ends it with B and gets with C a day, week, or month later. Person A was/is a cheater. Like a monkey that doesn't let go of one vine until they have another to latch onto in sight.
This post was edited on 8/27/14 at 11:43 am
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:42 am to Beau Tie
I was talking to beermoney
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:44 am to PortCityTiger24
quote:yep.
SHAQ
And so many idolize him but he was a cheating piece of shite.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:45 am to Tiger n Miami AU83
I have this belief as well. It's emotionally cheating.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:45 am to meauxjeaux2
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was known to have extramarital affairs.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:45 am to LSUTygerFan
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she who cheats WITH you will cheat ON you
So you believe that no one changes for the better? That the previous relationship was terrible and that a better relationship may cause different results?
I think there's a whole shite-ton of factors that go in to someone cheating. Sometimes it's just that they are piece of shite people with no morals or loyalty. But sometimes there's much more intricate things going on in their specific situations. I'm not saying that cheating is then justified. I'm just saying that given different circumstances, it's possible to have different results.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:45 am to meauxjeaux2
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And so many idolize him but he was a cheating piece of shite.
Or monogamy has never been the norm for the rich and powerful.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:45 am to TheCaterpillar
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Disagree vehemently.
I cheated on a girlfriend in college a couple times and it didn't phase me. Turns out she cheated on me too.
no need to try to justify your trashiness. if you had the poor enough moral compas to cheat on someone you were committed to in your late teens/early 20s, you cannot say with 100% certainty that you will never cheat again.
well, you can say it, but i wont believe you.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:45 am to fr33manator
"Men are only as faithful as their options"
Chris Rock
Same can be said about women
Chris Rock
Same can be said about women
Posted on 8/27/14 at 11:48 am to meauxjeaux2
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"Men are only as faithful as their options"
Yeah...I think most of us are weak creatures.
In the onslaught of chemistry,
Earthly bonds are sorely tested,
Even iron wills oxidize and turn to rust.
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