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re: How difficult are babies really

Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:04 am to
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:04 am to
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Start buying diapers now. They are like the price of gas, the costs never go down.
No. Wait for the deals. We've never paid full price and often asked for diapers as gifts instead of toys.
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It's ok to talk to your friends about how great she is..for a wk or so; but then those "new baby" stories get old fast
Just a week? Ha!
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Sit down with the mom to be & make a list of everything she will want to bring on any trip outside the home. Then go look at your car & understand that it will never hold half of what is "absolutely necessary".

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Do not expect any form of sex for at least 7 mths post birth.
Well, that's not true.
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Be serious about starting a college fund, even if it's only a few bucks a mth to start & then stay with it.
About the only thing I agree with you on.
This post was edited on 7/31/14 at 11:06 am
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
40758 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:05 am to
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I can't stand babies. They're fricking useless.


Trolling is awesome and all, but really...don't say shite like that.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:06 am to
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No, but like I said, they do chores and wipe their own arse.
My wife takes care of most of this...
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
40758 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:08 am to
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I can certainly relate on how the world's evils are magnified when you bring your child into the world.


It is really. I think about my childhood was and how much fun and freedom we had. My kid won't be able to go ride his bike outside without me around for a long long time, because of people texting while driving, pedi's rolling around looking for kids to swipe up. It's just extreme shite that I imagine though. I just want to keep him safe, but you come to the realization that at some point you can't stop it. Thank god he's only 4. Talk to me in 12 yrs when he's driving.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:09 am to
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You have kids and said that about babies? Totally unexpected 


I mean, babies do some neat stuff occasionally, but most they just shite, eat, sleep and repeat. Most of your time with them is wiping their arse, making them eat or watching them suck on your wife's tit, trying to get them to sleep. It's not like I didn't love my kids when they were babies but now I'm like "frick, so glad I don't have to do all that bullshite anymore."
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:14 am to
He holds his own bottle. He only has 3 naps a day. He's eating solids and finger foods. No, he doesn't "do" much yet. But he's starting to. He can pull up on almost anything. He wrestles with the dogs. He crawls and follows us around so there's less carrying. I'm enjoying it. Will I enjoy the 6-8 range more? Maybe... probably. But that doesn't mean this stage sucks and I can't enjoy it.
Posted by Cold Cous Cous
Bucktown, La.
Member since Oct 2003
15042 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:15 am to
It isn't "difficult" at all, as in nothing about babies is particularly hard to do. It is shockingly time consuming though. The first couple of months are a little better as you can set them down and leave, and they just stay there. It's once they start rolling or crawling you literally have to watch them all the time. I was not prepared for that.
Posted by blue_morrison
Member since Jan 2013
5112 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:15 am to
Don't even worry about latex gloves because you're gonna be knee deep in shite
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:16 am to
I'm glad you love your child ell. I'm happy for you.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
40758 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:18 am to
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Don't even worry about latex gloves because you're gonna be knee deep in shite


Getting shite/pissed on never bothered me. It always grosses out my wife. I just keep one keepin on. I just clean it up, and get the clothes back on.
Posted by Bussemer
Heading South
Member since Dec 2007
2519 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:18 am to
Join Amazon Prime and set up diapers, wipes, formula, etc to come every month or so on their subscribe and save program. 20% off.

Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38405 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:19 am to
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Start buying diapers now. They are like the price of gas, the costs never go down.

No. Wait for the deals. We've never paid full price and often asked for diapers as gifts instead of toys.

Sams brand diapers are the way to go.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:19 am to
Yeah I enjoyed taking care of mine more the older he got and the less I had to do for him physically

But the mental is the hardest part which only gets worse
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38405 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:20 am to
Just wait till hes around 1, hell be hillarious. My little guy is a friggin trip.
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:20 am to
Poor Paige. All by yourself.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84943 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:21 am to
I hate how annoying I've become because of him.
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12375 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:22 am to
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It's really not that bad, imo. Just be prepared to lose a lot of sleep and change a lot of diapers. If you and your wife work together and share responsibilities then it's really not that tough. Once you get your daughter on a normal sleep routine (sleeping through the entire night) it will be much easier for you. Just make sure you always burp her after feeding. Sometimes I'd pat my daughter on the back for several minutes and I'd be about to give up and then she'd give a huge burp. I sure do miss all of those baby smells.


Pretty much all of this.

At first you're going to be overwhelmed and thinking "how the frick am I going to do this?" and suddenly it'll become second nature and you'll be in a routine.

There's nothing like the first time they smile at you, the first time they say your name, the first time they toddle up to you with outstretched arms when you get home, and the first time they say "I love you."
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:22 am to
Hey I'm not a single parent complainer. Don't try to make me one
Posted by Polar Pop
Member since Feb 2012
10748 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:24 am to
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It's once they start rolling or crawling you literally have to watch them all the time. I was not prepared for that.


My kid just started crawling and pulling up on everything, I thought I knew the definition of tired.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62845 posts
Posted on 7/31/14 at 11:26 am to
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until I start hearing how horrible it is and we will never do anything fun, etc.


This is more the parents' fault than the baby's. You can make fun things happen if you still want them to. Especially of you have family in the area who want to help.

Let your wife go out with just her friends after you feel comfortable being alone with your daughter and when (if) yall do pumping and/or bottles. Not only will it most likely be returned in kind, just one night of stress relief lasts a long time, especially for your wife.
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