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goldenbadger08
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Post moar!

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I'd say that's pretty impressive itself!
Meh, it's hard competing with family.

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What type of law do you want to practice?
I don't know.. I'm really into the Constitution right now.. so maybe that.







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225bred
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I'm calling bullshite







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McLemore
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I haven't been cheated on yet



it sounds as though you consider it an inevitability.

you should be really Eeyore--go in the other direction by adding, "As far as i know."

ETA to OP (if that's still considered on-topic in this thread)--i know a girl who postponed her honeymoon to do a study abroad program and cheated on him there. not quite as bad as cheating on the actual honeymoon, but close.



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Montezuma
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Yep. During a deployment.

I gained a lot of muscle while I was gone. She gained a lot of fat. I don't feel too broken up about the divorce






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ZenFNmaster
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Never trust something that bleeds for seven days and don't die.





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okietiger
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Probably my first favorite Office quote but I believe it's 3 days not 7.





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Aftershock
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you should be really Eeyore






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Darth_Vader
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Thankfully I've never been in this situation personally other than HS girlfriends which I cheated on as well. I don't consider that to be true cheating on the same level as adultery since you're still kids in HS.

However, recently I have seen the aftermath of what adultery does to a family and it's nothing short of devastating. Turns out my neighbors (there are rumors they were swingers which may or may not be true, I cannot say either way) divorced late last year. The wife had been having an affair with a friend of hers which was supposed to be gay. For years he went with her on "girl's weekends", came over during the day to "watch chick flicks", or go out yard sale hopping on weekends. And apparently her girl friends were fully aware of the situation and kept their mouths shut. My neighbor found out by literally walking in and catching him balls deep in his wife.

They went from a outwardly normal looking family with two sons (4 and 10 at the time this happened) living in an upscale sub-division with a high standard of living to virtual desolation on his part at least. The boys bounce from him, to her, to grand parents, never spending more than a few days in one place. The dad lost the house and I'm afraid has turned to heavy drinking and maybe even drugs. The dude looks like he already has one foot in the grave. Basically, he's ruined. The mom is living in an apartment with her "gay" boyfriend and is far more interested in fricking him and going to things like Shakespeare festivals, wine tastings, and other artsy-fartsy things than spending time with her kids. The oldest son is taking all this really hard. He use to be a great outgoing kid. now he stays in trouble, is withdrawn from most of his friends, and looks to be heading down a road that will lead him into serious trouble before he even reaches driving age.

Basically, what adultery does is it destroys families and lives. Seeing it's results just next door to me is sobering.






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Vander
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Karma is a patient, harsh, and vindictive bitch. She'll get hers.


Bull shite. People who believe in karma are losers. Your life is what you make of it and waiting on some cosmic revenge is fricking stupid. If your SO wronged you in some way by cheating, then fight dirty. Hire the nastiest lawyer you can find, protest every single thing in court, generally make their life a living hell, and only contact her through your lawyer. Only when the dirvorce is complete should you stop giving a shite.

The reason I say this is because the overwhelming majority of people who frick up like this never receive any bad karma from it and then they go on to do it again and again. This is also why there are so many terrible people who hold office and lead companies.

If you're waiting on karma to solve shite then you're almost certainly going to be waiting a long time.






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eScott
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Once in high school. She calmed she was drunk(and she was) she quit drinking all together and tried to get back with me for 6 months. I even ran into her a few years later and I could tell she still wanted me back.





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Darth_Vader
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Bull shite. People who believe in karma are losers. Your life is what you make of it and waiting on some cosmic revenge is fricking stupid. If your SO wronged you in some way by cheating, then fight dirty. Hire the nastiest lawyer you can find, protest every single thing in court, generally make their life a living hell, and only contact her through your lawyer. Only when the dirvorce is complete should you stop giving a shite.

The reason I say this is because the overwhelming majority of people who frick up like this never receive any bad karma from it and then they go on to do it again and again. This is also why there are so many terrible people who hold office and lead companies.

If you're waiting on karma to solve shite then you're almost certainly going to be waiting a long time.


Hate to say it but you're right. Using my the neighbor I discussed in the post above yours is a prime example. She is the one who fricked around on him but he's the one that is financially and emotionally ruined. He's moved in with one of his buddies on the other side of town, living in the guy's travel trailer behind the guy's house. The ex-wife is living large getting to travel and go and live the good life with the guy she was fricking behind her husband's back. It's fricked up to say the least.






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TH03
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karma is a belief for those too weak to make their own lives





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LSUnowhas2
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Did he then drown her on a snorkeling adventure?





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Mung
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meh, getting yourself that worked up over cheating is only going to hurt you. If your spouse cheated, just move on. It demonstrates their lack of character, and possibly your poor choice of women. ultimately you are better off kicking that one to the curb.

As to the karma, it's more realistic to recognize that character shows up everywhere, and eventually people recognize shitty character and want nothing to do with scumbags.






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Darth_Vader
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When I was in the Army I saw instances where people found out their spouse was cheating on them. One guy in my platoon in Germany got a letter from his cousin confessing that he and his fiancee had been screwing around and he wanted to come clean and admit they were "in love". Bad thing was he got a letter from his fiancee a couple days later that didn't say a damn thing about what had been going on. Apparently she had no idea what this guys cousin was confessing when she mailed this letter and she was happy to keep him in the dark. He was already pissed and after seeing her letter he hit the roof. We took him out, got him good and drunk and got him laid and he got over it eventually.

I also heard stories (true or not, I cannot say) of married guys coming in from the field and finding their wife in bed with some rear area puke and doing things like throwing them out the window of 5 story housing units and all sorts of other crazy shite.






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Count Chocula
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Give me a holler when this thing turns to foot fetishes





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Darth_Vader
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meh, getting yourself that worked up over cheating is only going to hurt you. If your spouse cheated, just move on. It demonstrates their lack of character, and possibly your poor choice of women. ultimately you are better off kicking that one to the curb.


It's not that simple. This couple had been married for somewhere around 12-13 years. They had two kids together. Basically, his wife and kids was his life. I don't know how old you are or if you are married with kids. But if you've spent years raising a family and building a life with someone only to lose it all one day you simply have no point of reference to understand how it would effect you.






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Darth_Vader
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Give me a holler when this thing turns to foot fetishes




Well she did have pretty nice feet but I have no idea if that was their thing or not.






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Gorilla Ball
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I don't know if I was cheated on but, this chick I dated for awhile in high school and college broke up with me - felt like a kick in the nuts - and the next weekend she was going out with a boyfriend that had treated her like shite previously (according to her).

I didn't date for awhile but was screwing like a rabbit in speed.






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Topwater Trout
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She went to a bar at night and hooked up with a guy she met. They didn't have sex but were making out with his hands down her pants


maybe he lost his keys






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