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recently read and then watched Silver Linings Playbook


I saw an advertisement for this. I felt like I needed a shower after she came off as so cheap.






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TH03
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the ex telling me to "eat shite and die" usually expedites this process


yea, I bet. when someone hates you, it's a lot easier to write them off






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Paige
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Never been there





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337tigergirl
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I'm not talking relationship, but it would definitely not be a good date if I was talking about that the whole time

yea went on a date with a guy a couple weeks ago, he proceeded to get drunk (or drunker than me) and tell me about his past 2 relationships that ended up terribly. haha not the best first impression.






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Cajun Revolution
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You should cherish her because it may be a long long time before there's another.





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TH03
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yea went on a date with a guy a couple weeks ago, he proceeded to get drunk (or drunker than me) and tell me about his past 2 relationships that ended up terribly. haha not the best first impression.


frick that.

I went on a date with a chick in January, didn't mention the breakup at all and was proud of myself.

found out the next day that she had been hanging out with my ex for girl's nights ever since we broke up and she knew basically every detail






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Tommy Patel
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unless you get lucky and she is better than the ex


this is a scary philosophy, relationships are work, one night stands do not make the kind of relationship I think you really want. That's the little head doing your thinkin






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kingbob
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It's different for men and women because sex means different things for each gender.

For men, sex is tied to pleasure and ego. A guy that is having lots of sex with women he desires is going to probably feel better about himself than a guy who is not.

For women, sex has to do with emotional attachment and connection with another person.

Seeing as guys are generally having sex for the fun of it, a result of it being a stroking of the ego, while women have sex to establish closeness and connection, 1 night stands wouldn't really help a woman.

Women need to know that they belong, the need emotional connection. Therefor, it is better for a woman to hang out with other women and do group activities than engage in one-night-stands to heal emotional hurt.

Guys, on the other hand, want emotional connection, but generally seek out the physical connection with greater priority. By seeking out these one-night-stands, confidence can be restored leading to the ability of a guy to attract a female good enough to make him forget all about that ex that broke his heart.






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Topwater Trout
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one night stands do not make the kind of relationship I think you really want. That's the little head doing your thinkin


Broke up with gf on V-day and started dating new one 2 days later.....for over 5 years. I was lucky though.






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TH03
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That's pretty much spot on





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Rouge
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but in all seriousness, i wall myself off when a relationship ends.....just fall off face of social earth. been told that i do so for way too long. not the most healthy habit one can have





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Papa Tigah
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Nope





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TH03
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That's what I did for about 4-5 months. There were weeks where I didn't leave the house other than work.





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Cajun Revolution
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I have a friend that never talks to anybody when he in a relationship.

Then when he breaks up goes all EMO over facebook and messages everyone with "lets hangout" every frickin weekday.

Don't be that guy.






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Rouge
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That's what I did for about 4-5 months
no you didnt. you were on here 18 hours a day being all annoying and shit






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LaBR4
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strange is always the best.


This post was edited on 4/2 at 3:40 pm


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777Tiger
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hate to sound old fashioned, and hypocritical, but if the girl surrenders the booty on the first night, the odds of her being "the one" are miniscule, and that's extremely hypocritical, as guys want the booty, but if it's given too freely, they think "good for booty calls, not much else."





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TH03
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Nah I just didn't leave the house for awhile and when I did, most of my friends were pieces of shite so I found new ones that I've been going out with regularly





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Brageous
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It helps, but everybody needs a little time to move on and refuel. Each person's pace can also be directly related to what they are doing. If you're sitting around pining away and not going out and being with friends, then it'll definitely take longer. Hanging out with friends and finding new arse seem to help the most.

I realize this thread could easily be off topic by now, but I'll post my thoughts on the matter anyway!






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Tommy Patel
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Broke up with gf on V-day and started dating new one 2 days later.....for over 5 years. I was lucky though.


Daaaang, those are rare exceptions. I have never been so fortunate.






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