Okay.. Say your SO
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Posted by GrandeBeli on 12/31 at 1:17 am to Carson123987
I plan on taking her last night.


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Posted by TheRig on 12/31 at 1:18 am to Kashonly
4. She's famous and using another last name could cost her popularity.


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Posted by tiger114 on 12/31 at 1:18 am to CrimsonFanSince94
Why even get married? If she's keeping her name and doesn't want kids, why bother with the paperwork? Just keep leading semi-independent lives... which is what it sounds like she wants.


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Posted by lsunurse on 12/31 at 1:18 am to CrimsonFanSince94
I dated an awesome guy for 3 weeks and he finally told me that he def did not want children. He knew that I really did so felt like it wasn't fair to me to continue things without telling me. We split up that day.



Again...you have to be able to be ok with what she says she wants now. Don't stay with her in hopes that she will maybe change her mind.



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Posted by CrimsonFanSince94 on 12/31 at 1:21 am to lsunurse
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Again...you have to be able to be ok with what she says she wants now. Don't stay with her in hopes that she will maybe change her mind.


That's the problem, and what I want to do so bad..stay, and maybe she will see all of her other friends having kids. But you're right about the whole situation



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Posted by Kashonly on 12/31 at 1:22 am to CrimsonFanSince94
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And to kash
"Her career" is exactly what she says


bush league

"she a closet lesbian"


kids because she a cry baby scared of pain, but that could easily change, how old is she?
Have her hold one and she'll start to waiver.....it's like rough sex...when talking about it, she says "no", when it the act she says "yes"

now that whole career bullshite, you gots to tell her that it's a lame excuse. It's some canned answer that "feminism" has put in place so that all the trash who divorce aren't aren't further haunted......alot harder to get it changed back.

not that she's thinking the marriage won't last, she's just covering her exit strategy....


She will NEVER admit to any of this, and will claim that she has no idea where it comes from, but IMHO....if she really loved you and thought this was a deal breaker.....then it wouldn't be an issue.



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Posted by Kashonly on 12/31 at 1:23 am to TheRig
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4. She's famous and using another last name could cost her popularity.





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Posted by LSUcdro on 12/31 at 1:26 am to TheRig
both of those are deal breakers for me, she sounds cold


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Posted by lurkr on 12/31 at 1:26 am to CrimsonFanSince94
Kids would be a deal breaker.

I don't give a frick what she calls herself as long as she acts married.



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Posted by CrimsonFanSince94 on 12/31 at 1:27 am to Kashonly
She is 22, sir.
That's why I'm optimistic that maybe she could change her mind?



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Posted by Henry Jones Jr on 12/31 at 1:30 am to CrimsonFanSince94
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and maybe she will see all of her other friends having kids.

Nurse is right, you shouldn't wait around for it to happen.

But I do think at some point in the future she'll change her mind and want them. Her friends will start having them, she'll be going to baby showers a lot and she'll get to hold their kids in her arms. That's when she'll start thinking that she wants one of her own.



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Posted by lsuwontonwrap on 12/31 at 1:30 am to CrimsonFanSince94
If she doesn't want kid or my name, then I assume she doesn't want to get married. I'm fine with that.

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Posted by loyalauron on 12/31 at 1:33 am to Henry Jones Jr
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But I do think at some point in the future she'll change her mind and want them. Her friends will start having them, she'll be going to baby showers a lot and she'll get to hold their kids in her arms. That's when she'll start thinking that she wants one of her own.



I hate this shite.

There aren't enough women out there who don't want children. I am absolutely positive that I don't want children. It really limits your options.



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Posted by Kashonly on 12/31 at 1:33 am to CrimsonFanSince94
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She is 22, sir.


film her...just so you have that



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Posted by lsunurse on 12/31 at 1:38 am to Henry Jones Jr
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Her friends will start having them, she'll be going to baby showers a lot and she'll get to hold their kids in her arms. That's when she'll start thinking that she wants one of her own.



Not all women are like this. If a woman says she does not want kids, she likely does not.



Why would you want to place the rest of your life on the hopes that she eventually changes her mind?



Just a sign that she isn't the right one for you.



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Posted by CrimsonFanSince94 on 12/31 at 1:40 am to lsunurse
I'm taking your advice nurse


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Posted by Kashonly on 12/31 at 1:41 am to lsunurse
switch her BC out, spooge all up in it, then say that you want to start cooking for her.

when she gets sick, she'll blame your cooking....also save some blood from the meat and pour them on the sheets every 28 days and yell at her for being stupid.



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Posted by lsunurse on 12/31 at 1:43 am to CrimsonFanSince94
Good luck! I mean...you live in the South, how difficult can it be to find a woman that wants kids?



ETA: I'm assuming you live in Alabama?




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Posted by CrimsonFanSince94 on 12/31 at 1:45 am to lsunurse
Yep! UA. Ttown.


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Posted by East Coast Band on 12/31 at 1:46 am to CrimsonFanSince94
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Okay.. Say your SO
Wants no kids and wants to keep her last name.. Is this a deal breaker for you?


What age we talking here? Many women and men in college will say they want no kids, but happily change their minds as they get a little older.

Keep her last name? Don't like that. Maybe I'm just a traditionalist, but this shows me that you don't want to become "one" as a couple is. I wouldn't care if other couples wanted to keep their names, it's their business.



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