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| Okay.. Say your SO Posted by CrimsonFanSince94 Wants no kids and wants to keep her last name.. Is this a deal breaker for you?  on 12/31 at 12:57 amReply • Back to Top |
quote: Depends. What do "I" want? Reply • Back to Top |
| These are not equally weighted things. Reply • Back to Top |
quote: depends on you, but yeah, you are only temporary in her subconscious. Reply • Back to Top |
| You want a kid(s) and you would like her to have your last name. Reply • Back to Top |
| Well if you want kids and they do not, that SHOULD be a dealbreaker for you. It's not an issue yall can ever compromise on. Reply • Back to Top |
| I don't want any kids either. Depending on her OT rating, send her my way. The last name thing is kinda weird though, unless you just have a really shitty last name or it makes some bad combination with her names. Reply • Back to Top |
| Too late on the kids and frankly, she kills it in the earnings dept., so as long as she continues to give me sweet monkey love, I wouldn't care. Reply • Back to Top |
Then yes, it is a dealbreaker.  quote: This sums it up pretty good though. This post was edited on 12/31 at 1:01 am Reply • Back to Top |
quote: Give her my number, I'm down for this. Reply • Back to Top |
quote: The children issue: deal breaker Last name: discuss-able issue I guess discussable is not a real word? This post was edited on 12/31 at 1:03 am Reply • Back to Top |
| Dealbreaker. Bitch takes Rig's last name or she is out the door. Reply • Back to Top |
| man I laughed too hard at this Reply • Back to Top |
| Run Reply • Back to Top |
| that whole last name BS should be a deal breaker bitch has had plenty of time to accept that she's not going to have her name forever..... I hear the lamest of excuses: "my career"....put on of those girls in my face...." you telling me people aren't accustom to the notion that chicks change their name? That no successful woman has changed hers? OH.NO. she changed her name I don't think I can trust her" stop lying and tell me......if it's that you are scared of my vulgar sounding foreign last then say it and be gone. only reason chicks don't want to change their name: 1. you have a last name like Dick or something 2. she's Jewish and doesn't want to lose the superficial membership benefits 3. she wants to be married for the sake of being married, not because she wants to be married to you. Reply • Back to Top |
| Yep. Deal breaker at no kids. I can live with the other. Reply • Back to Top |
| Well we aren't close to marriage yet but, before we even started dating she told me this.. (It was the pussy the got me into this I swear lol) I really do like her a lot, she's growing on me and before I get any deeper into this I was wondering if I should withdraw.. The last name and baby isnt because of me, it's always been her preference. These are two things I'd really like, no not even really like but I need them to happen. She's a great girl and all but I don't think I shall continue. That's it. Reply • Back to Top |
| And to kash "Her career" is exactly what she says Reply • Back to Top |
| absolutely Reply • Back to Top |
| Women change their minds pretty often though on stuff like that though. ETA: Once they see everyone around them having kids they'll want the same thing This post was edited on 12/31 at 1:17 am Reply • Back to Top • Refresh |
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