Your SOs parent hates you... now what?
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Your SOs parent hates you... now what?
Posted by lsuwontonwrap on 11/18 at 2:23 pm
I know this topic has been broached before. I dated a girl a few years ago and things didn't end well. We were young and dumb. Well, as girls tend to do, she just tore me up to her mom. Now she and I are starting to talk again and she has made it clear that her mother pretty much hates me. She wants to invite me over for Thanksgiving, but is afraid of tension. What should I do? Move on? Try to make amends with mumsy? I'm at a loss. She has told her mom that I have changed for the better... no dice.

Women.



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Posted by Teddy Ruxpin on 11/18 at 2:23 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Move on.


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Posted by Chaos Six on 11/18 at 2:24 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Impossible to answer without pics.


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Posted by BayouBengal504 on 11/18 at 2:24 pm to lsuwontonwrap
She sounds stupid... Don't talk shite to your parents about a guy you dated then date him again... I bet her parents think she makes great decisions


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Posted by TH03 on 11/18 at 2:25 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Simple.


Turn her against her parents



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Posted by shutterspeed on 11/18 at 2:25 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Eat at the Picadillys instead.


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Posted by drunkenpunkin on 11/18 at 2:26 pm to lsuwontonwrap
I'm pretty sure my SO's family isn't fond of me, though they are nothing but nice. It only matters how your SO feels about it and if they are close with their family. Close knit family that hates you will never work out.


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Posted by 777Tiger on 11/18 at 2:26 pm to BayouBengal504
If she's behaved like this in the past, she'll resort to it again. Beat it.


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Posted by ClydeFrog on 11/18 at 2:26 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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she has made it clear that her mother pretty much hates me.





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Posted by Lester Earl on 11/18 at 2:27 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Go to thanksgiving and bring her mom some flowers or chocolate. Help clean up/cook/etc


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Posted by 777Tiger on 11/18 at 2:27 pm to 777Tiger
Btw you guys are "talking" and you refer to as your SO? Slow down there hot rod.


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Posted by TH03 on 11/18 at 2:28 pm to Lester Earl
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Go to thanksgiving and bring her mom some flowers or chocolate. Help clean up/cook/etc


Correct answer. Blow her fricking mind with how nice you are to her



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Posted by lsuwontonwrap on 11/18 at 2:29 pm to 777Tiger
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Btw you guys are "talking" and you refer to as your SO? Slow down there hot rod.


No, she's not my SO, but I know people on the OT have dealt with this before with theirs.



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Posted by sgallo3 on 11/18 at 2:29 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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Your SOs parent hates you... now what?


sex tape in their mailbox



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Posted by HoustonChick86 on 11/18 at 2:29 pm to Lester Earl
That's a good approach.


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Posted by Paige on 11/18 at 2:29 pm to Lester Earl
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Go to thanksgiving and bring her mom some flowers or chocolate. Help clean up/cook/etc
Lester always bringing the wisdom



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Posted by Cecil D Diesel on 11/18 at 2:30 pm to lsuwontonwrap
I've had a similar situation.
Best advice is to be nice and respectful, but not give a frick at the same time.



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Posted by Walt OReilly on 11/18 at 2:31 pm to lsuwontonwrap
next time dont vote for Obama or at least dont tell people you voted for him


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Posted by lsunurse on 11/18 at 2:31 pm to Lester Earl
Great idea. Also praise her for her cooking.



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Posted by Jim Rockford on 11/18 at 2:32 pm to Cecil D Diesel
And don't expect anything to be different right away. It's going to be a long term project to change attitudes.


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