re: 12 Year Old Girl with BPD

When my ex wife had her episodes... and let me say - it's Tuesday. Who loses their $hit on a random, boring, mondane Tuesday? A nothing going on Tuesday?

A Borderline does. And it's always YOUR fault.

Anyways - it could be something so simple as her endless complaining about petty stuff from her job, or aches and pains and eventually you just get tired of hearing it.

She can go off the rails when you disagree with her, or try to put in place boundaries ...

Two books - "Stop walking on egg shells" and "I hate you don't leave me" can help.

My ex used to get in my face screaming (and you can see the devil in her face) ANGRY, cusssing - "I F'N HATE YOU... if I was a man I would stomp your a$$"....

"I don't need you!"

Yep. And I had 2 boys with this woman.

They cannot be trusted. With anything. You cannot trust her with your credit or debit card, her cell phone... you cannot trust their word, or anything about them.

Even now, 10-11 years later, she lives 3.5 hours away and I don't trust her, negotiate with her, and I keep conversations short and sweet.