re: 12 Year Old Girl with BPD

Are you talking about Borderline Personality Trait Disorder?

If so.... I'm sorry bro.

My ex-wife has this and all I can tell you is - buckle up. I don't know that there is a cure. Medication and intense therapy can help.

I could write you a book my man. It's rough.

I will say this - they can cut off / sever any relationship over any perceived "abandonment" or any time you don't take thier side.

There is never any accountability on their end. They act like it never happened. They can go forever without speaking to you. Do NOT EVER expect an apology from them. Ever.

They can say and do the absolute WORST things, turn it around on you.... hate your guts. Never speak to you again until YOU cave in and apologize or ....

When their life crashes for the 4,682nd time, they're your best friend.

Again - I'm sorry. MY ex wife is the absolute worst person in the world.