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Who here has really fu**ed up, but straightened their life out?
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:39 am
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:39 am
Let’s be honest, we aren’t all saints, so for those of you that are, just leave the thread now.
But I can honestly say that my life was so out of control at one point right after college, that it scared me, not to mention worried family.
I didn’t think I could ever get right honestly, even working and “doing good” the better I did, the worse I got. Was making a stout salary for a single white male living alone, and I save nothing between dope dealers and casinos. My personal vice was assorted drugs, mainly opiates and cocaine.
Throw some intense gambling into it and i was hell on wheels.
Not to go into too many details, but with a lot of time and help (thank god for people that don’t give up on you) I’ve gotten a grip on my life and feel as if I’m progressing in my profession and plan to make a leap in the near future and start my own business and start really using my education.
Anybody else straight shite all over themselves at some point? Be it, legal issues, gambling, domestic problems, substance abuse (alcohol or drugs), or most of the above.
Edit : I asked this because at points in my addiction and early out of it, even with education under my belt, it seemed impossible to “make it” and be a normal businessman like I aspired.
Maybe somebody reading a semi success story will feel a that there is hope and seek help, or accept the help they likely don’t even know is already offered.
But I can honestly say that my life was so out of control at one point right after college, that it scared me, not to mention worried family.
I didn’t think I could ever get right honestly, even working and “doing good” the better I did, the worse I got. Was making a stout salary for a single white male living alone, and I save nothing between dope dealers and casinos. My personal vice was assorted drugs, mainly opiates and cocaine.
Throw some intense gambling into it and i was hell on wheels.
Not to go into too many details, but with a lot of time and help (thank god for people that don’t give up on you) I’ve gotten a grip on my life and feel as if I’m progressing in my profession and plan to make a leap in the near future and start my own business and start really using my education.
Anybody else straight shite all over themselves at some point? Be it, legal issues, gambling, domestic problems, substance abuse (alcohol or drugs), or most of the above.
Edit : I asked this because at points in my addiction and early out of it, even with education under my belt, it seemed impossible to “make it” and be a normal businessman like I aspired.
Maybe somebody reading a semi success story will feel a that there is hope and seek help, or accept the help they likely don’t even know is already offered.
This post was edited on 8/18/18 at 12:43 am
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:41 am to SouthernImmigrant
You fricked up this post and need to straighten it out. Don't hit enter unless you're making a new paragraph.
ETA:
Let’s be honest, we aren’t all saints, so for those of you that are, just leave the thread now. I can honestly say that my life was so out of control at one point right after college, that it scared me, not to mention worried family. I didn’t think I could ever get right honestly, even working and “doing good,” the better I did, the worse I got. I was making a stout salary for a single white male living alone, and I saved nothing between dope dealers and casinos. My personal vice was assorted drugs, mainly opiates and cocaine. Throw some intense gambling into it and I was hell on wheels.
Not to go into too many details, but with a lot of time and help (thank god for people that don’t give up on you) I’ve gotten a grip on my life and feel as if I’m progressing in my profession and plan to make a leap in the near future and start my own business and start really using my education.
ETA:
Let’s be honest, we aren’t all saints, so for those of you that are, just leave the thread now. I can honestly say that my life was so out of control at one point right after college, that it scared me, not to mention worried family. I didn’t think I could ever get right honestly, even working and “doing good,” the better I did, the worse I got. I was making a stout salary for a single white male living alone, and I saved nothing between dope dealers and casinos. My personal vice was assorted drugs, mainly opiates and cocaine. Throw some intense gambling into it and I was hell on wheels.
Not to go into too many details, but with a lot of time and help (thank god for people that don’t give up on you) I’ve gotten a grip on my life and feel as if I’m progressing in my profession and plan to make a leap in the near future and start my own business and start really using my education.
This post was edited on 8/18/18 at 12:47 am
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:44 am to rmnldr
You read it, you got the point.
Edit it the way you’d like it to read and I’ll happily repost.
Edit it the way you’d like it to read and I’ll happily repost.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:47 am to SouthernImmigrant
I've ruined my life several times but unfortunately never recovered. Not through drugs or alcohol or anything like that though. I doubt it will ever be "good".
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:55 am to SouthernImmigrant
A good friend, I had essentially written him off because he had gotten into such a quagmire hardcore partying drug scene, finally a series of events (his chronically ill mother dying and him getting together with a strong woman) were the catalyst. Now he's an MBA with a solid job, kids, triathlete, and more. Very proud of him.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 12:55 am to SouthernImmigrant
I'm still in the straightening out phase.
29 years old. Only an associates degree in business with heeps and mounds of debt to show for it.
Hard drugs, family illness, depression. All got the best of my early and mid twenties. I'm still nowhere close to being out of the woods. But I'm sober for the most part and working full time, so I am technically moving forward. Still need to go back to school ASAP.
29 years old. Only an associates degree in business with heeps and mounds of debt to show for it.
Hard drugs, family illness, depression. All got the best of my early and mid twenties. I'm still nowhere close to being out of the woods. But I'm sober for the most part and working full time, so I am technically moving forward. Still need to go back to school ASAP.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:04 am to jodyHighroller
Never really had a period of screwing up badly was just always floundering and always will be. If I had a dramatic crash it might’ve been better because it I could’ve turned around quicker
This post was edited on 8/20/18 at 1:32 pm
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:06 am to SouthernImmigrant
Serious drinking problem that started in college and never stopped. Caused me to drop out of LSU and take about 4 years off. One day I decided I hated the dead end job I had, quit drinking, reenrolled in college and got a job/internship in the Field I wanted to work in. Worked full time while taking 21 hours a semester, graduated on the deans list and am now working in an extremely competitive field and thriving.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:06 am to jodyHighroller
I pretty much tried anything that was put In front of me from 18 to 21 except for Crack, Heroion, and acid. I don’t think I did anyone single drug more than 10 times. I learned to distance myself from those types of folks at an early age so it never was a problem for me and was more of a experiment on the weekend kind of guy.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:39 am to SouthernImmigrant
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My personal vice was assorted drugs, mainly opiates and cocaine.
Throw some intense gambling into it and i was hell on wheels.
You belong here
And yes... I've been in a similar situation... grew out of it due to disgust and hatred for myself... better off for it
Be your harshest critic and be willing to call yourself out on your own bullshite
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:45 am to TheArrogantCorndog
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You belong here
I can account for atleast 3 fellow TD/OT posters that I know irl that have faced similar issues. 2 are doing great, one is in and out of assorted parish jails.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:48 am to SouthernImmigrant
I’ve never sucked dick for crack
Posted on 8/18/18 at 1:55 am to biglego
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I’ve never sucked dick for crack
Well, I’ve never sucked dick for anything; but what you do with your mouth, on your free time, for whatever in exchange, is on you brother.
This post was edited on 8/18/18 at 1:56 am
Posted on 8/18/18 at 2:02 am to biglego
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I’ve never sucked dick for crack
Posted on 8/18/18 at 2:04 am to SouthernImmigrant
I love stories of guys who overcame and made it out. I hate guys who act like they have some sort of moral authority because they were once deadbeats and reformed.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 2:14 am to Tigerlaff
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moral authority because they were once deadbeats and reformed.
I feel like I caused so many people so many problems, the only thing I can do it right some of my wrongs is to help somebody struggling.
If that makes me a pretentious Dick, I hope I save a life or help somebody while being that
Posted on 8/18/18 at 2:27 am to SouthernImmigrant
Well I was basically homeless 12 years ago with nothing to my name. I now have a career,own a nice home, vehicles, and have a beautiful wife after giving up dope and asking God for help.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 2:29 am to jodyHighroller
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29 years old. Only an associates degree in business with heeps and mounds of debt to show for it.
Hard drugs, family illness, depression. All got the best of my early and mid twenties. I'm still nowhere close to being out of the woods. But I'm sober for the most part and working full time, so I am technically moving forward. Still need to go back to school ASAP.
Have you looked for employment based off your degree? I don't imagine there would be much as the job market is likely over saturated with 4 year grads, but interested to hear of your experience if it opened any doors for you.
Posted on 8/18/18 at 3:14 am to SouthernImmigrant
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I feel like I caused so many people so many problems, the only thing I can do it right some of my wrongs is to help somebody struggling.
If that makes me a pretentious Dick, I hope I save a life or help somebody while being that
You sound like a good dude. You are not my target. My beef is with the guy who says "Trust me bro, you don't know what real struggle is until you've kicked ______. Do ________, and then come talk to me about life."
Ummm no, I did it right the first time, despite temptations. I get credit for that. You succumbed and fricked up. You are punished for that. If you want a case lesson on how to live life, I am a better example than the reformed tweaker. Going through a corrective phase just means you are catching up to those of us who made good decisions.
This applies to newly religious folks, drug recoverers, people with gimmick diets, etc.
Just don't fricking preach to people who are 3 laps ahead of you.
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