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re: The Men on OnlyFans Aren't Who You Think
Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:02 am to Polk High School
Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:02 am to Polk High School
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In the meantime, the married men who make up a majority of OnlyFans users appear to be no worse off in their relationships—nor sitting alone in their basements. And some may even have more communicative, connected, and adventurous partnerships than if they had simply snuck off to watch porn
I love how the article doesn’t consider OF porn
And clearly some OT baw inspired the article due to the claim that viewing OF content lends the married man no worse off, clearly not in his mother’s basement and with more communicative, contented and adventurous relationships with their SO.
I wonder what their wives have to say about it… bc of course they know.
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Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:15 am to Polk High School
Kind of off-topic, but an interesting, counter-intuitive thing I've seen is guys like 18-21 posting on cuckold porn subreddits. It's really weird to me... you are a young man, likely a teenage virgin, and somehow you are into cuckold porn?
How does that work? You fantasize about growing up, getting married, and then having this wife of yours cheat on you? That's pretty fricking weird, man.
I guess it's similar to a lot of things nowadays, in that we're living in a "postmodern" era where a lot of things have been stripped of their real meaning and commoditized. Like, people complain about "rape culture" but then think it's cute to let their kids watch media about pirates. I mean, what do you think pirates actually did to women?
It's all just a nonsensical way of thinking. Everything has been rendered totally insipid... be a cuckold, a pirate... haha, zombies! Chewbacca! It's all just aesthetics wrapped around the same bland consumer culture. It's like Funko Pops- all the same except for a meaningless veneer.
How does that work? You fantasize about growing up, getting married, and then having this wife of yours cheat on you? That's pretty fricking weird, man.
I guess it's similar to a lot of things nowadays, in that we're living in a "postmodern" era where a lot of things have been stripped of their real meaning and commoditized. Like, people complain about "rape culture" but then think it's cute to let their kids watch media about pirates. I mean, what do you think pirates actually did to women?
It's all just a nonsensical way of thinking. Everything has been rendered totally insipid... be a cuckold, a pirate... haha, zombies! Chewbacca! It's all just aesthetics wrapped around the same bland consumer culture. It's like Funko Pops- all the same except for a meaningless veneer.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:18 am to Porpus
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I mean, what do you think pirates actually did to women?
Tea parties ?
Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:20 am to fr33manator
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Tea parties ?
Nah, bruh. Rape. But also parrots.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:58 am to AwesomeSauce
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Have seem women on both ends of the spectrum some losing almost all drive and some becoming insatiable through menopause, ovulation, pregnancy, and post-partum. I think the key is to have healthy communication with your SO or partner
I wonder though, if the instances of cheating, can at least be partially attributed to out of whack hormones. Not an excuse for allowing Jodi or Tyrone entry, but somewhere in that hormone level, some biological indicators are off that activate some primal urge to screw while you're still fertile.
Like I said, infidelity is due to the destruction of protective barriers we put in place to secure our marriages. Maybe I should add hormonal imbalances to my list.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 11:59 am to Porpus
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Kind of off-topic, but an interesting, counter-intuitive thing I've seen is guys like 18-21 posting on cuckold porn subreddits. It's really weird to me... you are a young man, likely a teenage virgin, and somehow you are into cuckold porn?
Its a product of years of being pushed female empowerment that has slipped into the realm of male neutering.
But I will be fair to those guys, at least a few of them could be watching it from the angle of the bull, aka the guy actually doing the chick, and not the cuckold.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:10 pm to fallguy_1978
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There isn't a woman in the world that I'd pay a subscription fee to for stripping on a web cam
Subtle "I'm single" brag
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:17 pm to Polk High School
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Imagine getting married, giving up your freedom, giving up access to other women, only to end up in a sexless marriage where you're reduced to a pathetic loser paying girls on OnlyFans to get naked and pretend they like you.
Most of them are probably in their 50's and their sexless marriage is more a statement about the sex drive of people in their 50's than it is about them actually wanting to have more sex. Their appeal to women other than their wives is also a matter of imagination more than it is reality....other than having some money there is very little attraction to most 50 year old dads except to 50 year old moms....
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:21 pm to AwgustaDawg
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Most of them are probably in their 50's and their sexless marriage is more a statement about the sex drive of people in their 50's than it is about them actually wanting to have more sex. Their appeal to women other than their wives is also a matter of imagination more than it is reality....other than having some money there is very little attraction to most 50 year old dads except to 50 year old moms....
I know it's anecdote, but I don't think the posters here that claim nearly sexless marriages, are in their 50's. But even so, are you suggesting that couples lose their sex drive once you hit that age? That's pretty depressing to hear.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:22 pm to VetteGuy
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This.
Good grief, women are literally everywhere.
They are. The problem is that a vast majority of them, just like men, are not that interesting. Sex is one thing, it is a physical need, but requires something akin to a relationship even in a one-night stand...bot participants have to pretend to be interested in one another. Thats easy to do when your nether regions rule all thinking, it is not when you get over it. There is a reason that mature nations have legal prostitution.....and in most of those it is wives who insist on maintaining its legal status because the men who partake would if it was legal or not....
Until you have been in a truly loving and meaningful relationship you will not understand that sex outside of that relationship is basically the same as jerking off....its fun but it loses its appeal right quick.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:25 pm to Polk High School
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The point is that the narrative regarding OnlyFans has always been that its members are a bunch of unmarried lonely losers living in their mom's basement.
It appears 89 percent of the lonely losers are married
Apparently single guys get a lot more action than married guys and don't have to resort to paying OnlyFans girls for attention.
There is zero chance that single men have more sex than married men, at any age, when the married man is in a healthy marriage. Most men have about 1/10th the game they imagine they have.....when young they are spending a lot of resources trying to get laid and doing so consistently if they are fortunate but at the same age married men are getting laid far more regularly. It is not the kelloggs variety pack but it also comes without having to play the game and, if it is a healthy relationship, it is far more meaningful and enjoyable than the kellogs variety pack.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:28 pm to deltaland
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I think it’s exaggeration
My wife and I have sex once or twice a week but I still joke about it since as a man I’d prefer daily. But it’s enough to not really complain or want to find it elsewhere
I suspect this is the norm for most folks who have been married 10 years or so. I bitch about it myself but its all for show....if my wife wanted to have sex as often as I pretend to I would have to beg off after a week or so LOL....its the way of men as we mature.
It is also pretty damned liberating not being lead through life by your dick. It is not noticeable when you are in the middle of it but being a slave to your pecker is a LOT of work.....
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:36 pm to Oates Mustache
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Most of them are probably in their 50's and their sexless marriage is more a statement about the sex drive of people in their 50's than it is about them actually wanting to have more sex. Their appeal to women other than their wives is also a matter of imagination more than it is reality....other than having some money there is very little attraction to most 50 year old dads except to 50 year old moms....
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I know it's anecdote, but I don't think the posters here that claim nearly sexless marriages, are in their 50's. But even so, are you suggesting that couples lose their sex drive once you hit that age? That's pretty depressing to hear.
I’m in my 50s, married 27 years. And while I can only speak for my marriage, it’s far from sexless. Really the only thing that’s different is we tend to do it first thing in the morning instead of at night like when we’re younger. As for frequency, it’s still usually once or twice a week.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:40 pm to Oates Mustache
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Because sex in a marriage is just as important as all the other pieces. A sexless marriage would be a miserable existence.
If a marriage is truly sexless, like no sex of any kind for 3 weeks at a time or something, there are other issues at play. It may be health problems or something outside of anyone's control but if a man and woman are living together and supposedly in love with one another sex happens. Life no doubt gets in the way but unless there is a health issue sex happens. The really wonderful thing about marital sex is it doesn't require the effort that being single and getting laid requires....for either party. Its nice to make the effort occasionally because romance is a turn on but its also nice just to get laid 'cause you are there LOL....
My wife and I have been married for 32 years and lived together 5 years before we got married. To the best of my knowledge we have been exclusive for those 37 years....I know I have, if she hasn't I don't know it and therefore it is completely unimportant to me....I trust she has been faithful but you never know. Like all people we went from not being able to keep our hands off one another to having sex a couple of times a week. In those 37 years the longest we have ever gone without sex is 20 days and that was due to me being overseas working. There have been a couple of 2 week periods when one of us had a health issue but we still managed to find a way...even when she had just given birth we didn't go more than a couple of weeks without having some form of sex. Sex drive wanes over time....it happens to almost everyone. What changes is sex becomes MUCH more meaningful and satisfying IF both partners are healthy and care about one another.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:42 pm to Tasseo
A 50 year incel, and they exist for certain, is not the threat to society that a 20 year old incel is because most 50 year olds are not going to lose their mind if they ain't getting laid....most 20 year olds will do so to some extent. Very few men do not have memories of having done shite they regretted in order to get laid....
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:45 pm to fallguy_1978
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Women losing much of their sex drive due to menopause is also very much a real thing. It falls off a cliff for some women. Men are mostly more of a gradual decline.
This is true. Men are also more easily "turned on" at every stage of life...because outside of societal restraints we are ready to breed anytime opportunity presents itself while women are stuck with the results of said breeding. A 60 year old man who is healthy is far more likely to be able to perform about as well once as he ever was where his 60 year old wife probably is not.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:47 pm to Porpus
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How does that work? You fantasize about growing up, getting married, and then having this wife of yours cheat on you? That's pretty fricking weird, man.
It's called being gay.
cuck porn is for gay dudes, and if you're a straight dude that enjoys it, you just hadn't figured out that you're gay yet.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 12:48 pm to Oates Mustache
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emotional neglect (losing your identities that brought you together in the first place),
This is a big issue that many men fail to comprehend. When a man is pursuing his future wife the sun and moon rises and sets in her arse....many times that same man will forget that over time....and the woman will find it elsewhere. People talk about simping but everybody plays the fool...its far easier on the ego when you are doing so for someone you have shared most of your adult life with than some stranger....
Posted on 5/13/24 at 1:04 pm to gizmothepug
You do realize no matter what the subject matter of his first post would've been, you'd be saying the same thing? Every user on here had to start somewhere. This is a juvenile take.
Posted on 5/13/24 at 1:28 pm to fallguy_1978
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There isn't a woman in the world that I'd pay a subscription fee to for stripping on a web cam
In general I agree, but there is technically one I would subscribe to.......I married her; subscription details are a bit different and the web cam is not necessary. and I'm her only customer. at least I think so
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